Tuesday, November 8, 2022

My Month Is Booked: October Reads

I totally forgot to post September's read, so you get two months worth this time, though I definitely didn't read as much as I did in summer! And I'm having a hard time picking my next read (though I did read 2 books already this month). I'm hoping to get some inspiration from reading all your recent reviews in Lauren's linkup! Anyway, Here's what I read since the last time I joined:

Opium and Absinthe - Lydia Kang: 4 Stars
library paperback
Trigger warnings: drug abuse/addiction, rape


I was a little wary about reading this one as it's not something I normally would have picked up because it's set in 1899 (I'm not a big fan of historical fiction) and vampires (also not a fan of paranormal). It was a book club pick, but perfect for "spooky" season! I was reeled in hard though! Basically our MC, Tillie, gets into a horse-riding accident, breaking her collarbone and hurting her shoulder, and is given opium for the pain. The same day, her sister goes missing and then is found dead in Central Park with what appear to be vampire bites on her neck and a bottle of absinthe next to her. When she finds this out, she makes it her mission to find out more about vampires and who or what killed her sister, but she's heavily drugged the entire story. (It should be noted that "Dracula" was also just released around this time.) 

I felt bad for Tillie. First of all, she got hooked on opiates (as many young people do) due to an injury. It was actually a bit baffling since this is still such a raging issue today. Second, her family was awful (they had been keeping secrets of their own, which they continued not to discuss because it also kept them wealthy and "in good name"). Third, I was reminded how women were rated as second class citizens even when they were rich. She wants to WORK? Why, when she could be a "kept" woman?! Oh, Tillie is angry, reacting, and speaking up about it? She must be hysterical! Let's take her to the doctor for a dose of morphine immediately! Also, (almost) everyone was so willing to keep her drugged up so she would keep subdued, quiet, and just "let it go"! 

There was a lot going on in this story, and characters kept popping in, it seemed ad-hoc, to throw the reader (and Tillie) for a loop with a possible new killer candidate, which worked but was also a bit confusing. Our narrator is very unreliable so it's hard to figure out "whodunit" as she researches other vampiric-appearing deaths and more about the creatures themselves. Did Tillie truly know her older sister at all? As the pieces come together through the drug-induced haze, we begin to see a bigger picture of who her sister, and the people in her life, all played a part in her ultimate death... one that Tillie nearly meets herself.



Overall I really enjoyed this book. However the ending left me wanting to know one more thing - ___was acting really weird, and I want to know her full story. 

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I liked this, but didn't love it. First of all, it was overly predictable. Second, I didn't really like either of the main characters. Third, I don't like it in general when a story goes back and forth in time, and this was no exception. It got so confusing! Fourth, I was irked that the title had absolutely nothing to do with the book. Or maybe I didn't love it  because I adored Beach Read so much?! 


Kindle Unlimited


It's had to rate this because it wasn't a book... it wasn't even a novella. It was like a longer essay? But I love her reasoning for why she loves Halloween so much, the stories from growing up, her "conversations" with her editor sprinkled throughout, and of course the pictures. I was literally laughing out loud for most of it! 


Book Stats (recounted this month)
Total number read: 34
Owned: 22
Library: 12
E-book: 18
Physical book: 16
Non-Fiction: 5
BIPOC Author: 5
Given Away/Paperback Swap: 14


What are you reading?
Linking up with Lauren!

Friday, November 4, 2022

Currently: October

I was so happy when I learned that Jennifer was picking up the Currently link-up! I know I haven't participated in a long time, but I'm excited to catch up with all of you! Let's jump right in, shall we?

Reading: My Friend Anna: The True Story of a Fake Heiress by Rachel DeLoache Williams. Now that Erin's Book Challenge is over (I wound up reading 14 books between July 1st and Oct 31st!), I'm doing some "free-for-all" reading, and this finally became available at my library. I also started watching the Netflix series - have you seen it? This chick is crazy!

Listening To: Lizzo - 2 Be Loved (Am I Ready)      

Watching: I just watched Father Stu on Netflix last weekend; it was a bit of a tearjerker!

I am LOVING that Thursday Night Football has been moved to Amazon Prime. I don't have cable and even though I have an antennae to get some basic channels, the reception is spotty. This has been a real game changer (get it?! ha!)!

One of my high school friends shared this short documentary on FB called "One All The Way," which I didn't realize was a New Jersey regional term for Texas wieners! But it also shares a little history about the town Paterson, which is very close to me, and includes many hot dog joints that I've also visited on a hot dog crawl! 

 

Borrowing: my friend's Starz account. I pay for a bunch and she shares some of mine too, but I only watch one show on this channel (The L Word) and it's coming back soon.

Buying: some new clothes. I shared my Prime Purchases on Tuesday, but I've also purchased a leather encased flask with my initials on it and a new candle from some local vendors at a craft fair.

Planning: Vacation! Hoping for a quick fall getaway/long weekend in either Vermont or Lake George, and then a TRUE vacation to Aruba in December, which will be the first *real* vacation, on a plane,  in two years (pre-pandemic)! We already booked our flights, and are in the process of researching excursions. If you've ever been to Aruba and have any recommendations, please send them my way! 

Prepping: my apartment for colder weather. I've been putting this off since it's been so warm recently (and expecting 76 degrees this weekend? In NJ, that's really warm for this time of year!), but I just put my area rug out, and I've pulled out my thermal backed curtains, air conditioner cover, and down comforter so they are ready to be put to use when it's a little cooler! 


What's currently going on with you?
Linking up with Jennifer

Tuesday, November 1, 2022

October Prime Purchases

Hi friends! I know I've been mostly MIA here but am hoping to get better about posting now that my "busy season" at work is done! Ya ever notice how after work you no longer want to look at a computer screen?! I either want to read a physical book, talk to or go out with friends, or zone out watching TV. Ok that last one isn't the greatest habit, but it's true! Anyway, I hope to get better about being present here, starting now!

Before I get to my recent purchases though, I have a slight rant - can we stop calling these "belt bags"? They are FANNY PACKS! OMG, you guys. I can't. Yes, I understand why they're a "#1 Best Seller!" because they are convenient AF, but they are still the same fanny packs that your grandma wore, just more aesthetically pleasing. #endrant

In other news, they say "imitation is the sincerest form of flattery" and I hope that's still true because I bought so many of the items Tanya shared in September and I love them! (Another reason why I love this linkup!) So without further ado, here's what I bought from Amazon last month:


I have a long black raincoat but have been searching for a shorter khaki one that hits right below my hips. I love this one because it has a drawstring in the middle so I can tighten it if needed, and one on the hood so I can tighten if it's windy. And the zipper plus button closure makes me feel extra secure that I'll stay dry!


I'm always looking for reasonably priced long sleeve tops, usually to go under sweaters or cardigans in the colder month. I like the versatility of this one because I can wear it in multiple seasons and the cut is a little fancier than some of the regular cotton ones I own so I can wear it alone or with something over it. 


I love a good chunky cardigan to throw on over just about anything on colder days! I got this in navy and really like the shape, texture, and deep pockets of this one.


These Amazon Essentials flats were a replacement item since my last pair bit the dust recently. I was surprised by how well they fit and how comfortable they are! I sized down 1/2 a size and they fit perfectly. I'll probably buy them in multiple colors when spring comes back around!


Another replacement item - since losing my awesome slim wallet during MDW, I've been walking around with my driver's license and debit card just loosey goosey in my bag- no bueno! I was inspired by Tanya's daughter to get this slim RFID blocking card holder keychain, which is the perfect size to hold my ID, debit card, and some cash (does anyone carry around cash anymore?!). I also like the keychain because I can attach it to an inner pocket of my work bag so no one can steal it! Score! 



Essie nail polish in Drive-in + Dine. I'm a big fan of the Essie colors and needed a new polish for an upcoming vacation. Bonus, this one was only $6.



What are you purchasing lately?
Linking up with Tanya

Thursday, October 27, 2022

Would You Rather? Fall Edition

 I found this over at Joanne at My Slices of Life and thought it looked like fun so I had to join!


Watch a fall movie or football?
Oooh, this is probably the hardest one! But how would you categorize a movie as "fall"? So I guess football. (Fly, EAGLES, fly!)


Carve a pumpkin or paint a pumpkin?
Definitely paint! Carving pumpkins is a messy affair, and I don't trust myself with some of those knives! I do like looking at what others carve though! 

Drink hot cocoa or hot tea?
Like Joanne, I really only drink hot tea when I'm sick. But I do enjoy hot cocoa with mini marshmallows. (And especially spiked with Andes and Rumchata!)

Wear a cozy sweater or a flannel shirt?
Give me all the cozy sweaters!


Visit a pumpkin patch or corn maze?
Definitely pumpkin patch! I hate feeling lost!


Eat candy corn or a caramel apple?
Neither? I'm not a big fan of sweets!

Eat pumpkin pie or apple pie?
Definitely pumpkin pie. I make a pretty good one too!

Drink pumpkin spice or salted caramel coffee?
I don't think I've ever tried a salted caramel one... maybe that should be a goal for this season! 


You can find the original questionnaire at Life by Wyetha.
Which would you rather?!

Tuesday, October 25, 2022

TTT: Halloween Reads

Hi TTT friends! I know I've not been participating in this linkup lately, but I couldn't let this one pass me up. Here are ten "spooky" books that I own, but haven't actually read just yet (with the exception of Opium and Absinthe, which I highly recommend)! Have you read any of these? If so, which would you recommend? 

I Choose Darkness: A Holiday Essay - Jenny Lawson

The Yellow Wallpaper - Charlotte Perkins-Gilman

The Legend of Sleepy Hollow and other Short Stories - Washington Irving

The Picture of Dorian Gray - Oscar Wilde

The Bell Jar - Sylvia Plath

Frankenstein - Mary Shelley

Baby Teeth - Zoje Stage

The Family Upstairs - Lisa Jewell

Opium and Absinthe - Lydia Kang

The 7 1/2 Deaths of Evelyn Hardcastle - Stuart Turton



What spooky reads have you picked for this season?
Linking up with Jana!

Tuesday, October 18, 2022

My Month Is Booked

I have been so bad about keeping up with my book reviews not just here, but also in my reading journal which I was SO EXCITED to get last Christmas! I need to catch up from the last... um... 6 months?! Eek! But let me start with the latest, yes? Here's what I've been reading since my last check in!

The Day The World Came To Town: 9/11 in Gander, Newfoundland - Jim DeFede: 5 Stars
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I wanted to read this close to 9/11, so I was putting this off a bit even though I was REALLY anxious to read it. I also wanted to read this even more because I learned that the play/movie "Come From Away" was based off of this book (yes, I'm a sucker for book to screen adaptations). I thought this would break my lil Grinchy heart, but I was so deeply touched by these people's generosity, and the some of the personal stories that DeFede was able to gather. In fact, it was quite uplifting to see how the entire province came together to support and care for these strangers. It really gave me hope that humanity still exists, even if only in some remote corners of the world! It didn't matter who they were- there was a CEO originally headed for Fashion Week who found himself loving the quiet and helping other passengers, right next to the couple who adopted a child who (seemingly) didn't take to her new mother, which caused her extra anxiety - but EVERY townsperson chipped in whatever they could, whether it was donating food or their cooking skills, to shower space and towels, and even opening their homes to these strangers, that really got to me. A must read! 
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This was a perfect example of "if family members only talked to each other more!". I thought this would be about finding out how Lydia died, but it was more about the family and how they all got to where they were. Classic case of a parent pushing their unrealized dreams on their children. This was a heartbreaking story but one I will keep in my heart and mind, probably forever. Another MUST READ! 


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"You have to know that no matter what they say about you, all that matters is what you know about yourself here."
This had a lot going on. And I'll admit that at times I thought it was too much. There are several trigger warnings, including rape, bullying, and a school shooting. I didn't know about the last one going into this book and as hard as that was to read, it didn't affect me as much as the first one. In fact, I didn't even realize how BADLY the first one affected me until I saw the movie (on Netflix, for anyone interested). I think Ani is the way she is based on her environment- where she came from, and where she wants to go. I don't think there is anything inherently "bad" about her, she just knows what she wants and goes for it and sometimes, other things got in the way. There are certain scenes that have stuck with me, and not just gruesome ones (rape, the gym shorts OMG EW) but some of the tender ones too (the seashell frame and what became of it). I can't say too much without giving everything away, but Ani is one strong female character. Spoiler (highlight to see): She demanded the truth from her abusers - and at least one of them admitting it.  And she stood up for herself in the end, even knowing the risks. (Also, I think anyone who read this in 2015 and/or saw any comparison to "Gone Girl" should give it another shot because it was NOTHING like that book and at the time the market was overrun with the "unreliable narrator" genre. This needs to be given another chance- I think that was part of why I liked this so much more than some others- timing is everything sometimes.) 


"I don’t know if I belong here. How can that be possible, to feel estranged from a place where everyone loves you? To owe your life to a place and still want to run?"
Oh Ms. McQuiston. You definitely pulled me again! This was nothing like the other novel I read by her (One Last Stop), but I really enjoyed how she took the town "It Girl" and made her a real person, with motives and desires completely different from her family's and her community's expectations. 

Shara manages to get three other schoolmates  with seemingly nothing in common - her rival for Valedictorian, the school  "bad boy" (who also happens to live next door to her) and her quarterback boyfriend - to work together to figure out where she went, and why. I loved how they worked together, with the help of the clues she left behind, and how that brought them closer together. I didn't love how orchestrated it was. And what bothered me most was that this girl was about 16, disappeared DURING a school dance, and her parents don't ask or even seem to care where she went and why? That didn't make sense. 
“Most of the things we’re feeling right now are things we’re feeling for the first time. We’re learning what it means to feel them. What we can mean to one another. Of course that matters. And this, here, right now—even if nothing changes, even if all we can do today is prove that we exist, and that we’re not alone—I think it matters a whole fucking lot.”
Library e-book

Trigger warnings: mental illness


"The lives of three strangers interconnect in unforeseen ways and with unexpected consequences in acclaimed author Dan Chaon's gripping, brilliantly written new novel."
This was my local book club's pick. I've never heard of it and wouldn't found it otherwise and even though I didn't love it, I'm glad I did! I usually devour novels wither interconnecting storylines, but this was a bit far-fetched even for me. This was a bit of a slow burn book, even though it starts with a guy's severed hand being rushed to the hospital. Who is this guy? Who is his father who ALLOWED this to happen in front of him? And that's the whole plot - it's based on identity theft. 

I heard during our book club that the author did write this is three stages, years apart. And that's exactly how it reads- like 3 separate novellas pieced together at the end (vaguely, and with many holes and too much room for interpretation, IMO). 

Anyway, it led to a great discussion about mental illness.

The Last Anniversary - Liane Moriarty: 4 Stars
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‘Love is a decision.’
Liane Moriarty is one of my favorite authors, and I'm trying to work through her backlog. This is a far cry from some of her latest works such as Nine Perfect Strangers and Apples Never Fall. Originally published in 2006, this is the story of a young woman who leaves her life on mainland Australia after a disastrous engagement where she leaves the groom at the alter, to a nearby island and a family full of secrets. 

If you've read her more recent works, you can certainly tell this is an earlier work, but it wasn't bad. Her main characters were well developed, but overall there were too many characters and side stories (which I feel is true of all of her novels, TBH). I figured out the "mystery" early on, but I appreciate how Moriarty wraps up each storyline.

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Trigger warnings: body dysmorphia, eating disorders, homophobia



I'm actually surprised I'm even giving this book 2 stars, because I really, REALLY disliked it. 
However the writing wasn't terrible, but the plot/storyline grossed me out, TBH. Maybe I'm a prude or too conservative, but the main theme in this book was seriously disturbing to me. Perhaps you will find it provocative and thought-provoking! I mean, there's a breast on the cover, so that's what I was thinking going in. The actual plot is about Rachel, a bisexual lapsed Jewish woman who is obsessed with calorie counting to stay "healthy" (instilled by her mother), who falls for Miriam, the server at her favorite froyo spot, a devout (straight) Jewish woman of about the same age. 

None of that bothered me. It was all of the fantasies Rachel had, including ones involving the secretary at her job and Miriam, in which she fantasized either or both of them as "mothering" her... fantasies that started as sexual, and then imagining them coddling her in a motherly way (which was directly stated, not up to the reader's imagination), petting her head or soothing her, and then sucking or humping in a very aggressive, rough fashion... while STILL thinking of this other woman in a motherly way. I'm not disturbed by rough sex either, but it was the notion that she felt she was doing it with someone even she considered motherly. I don't know, I'm having a hard time describing how unsettling the fantasies, and even the actual sex was. 

And then there was Miriam. She pissed me off because she basically led Rachel on, and then dumped her. Of course, Rachel said some inappropriate things at a family dinner at Miriam's house, but it was seemed to be dropped soon after. I don't know- the plot didn't make sense. 
(If anyone else read this and wants to discuss further please let me know!)


What are you reading?
Linking up with Lauren!


Tuesday, August 9, 2022

My Month Is Booked: Books Read in July

I was really sad when Steph and Jana decided to end their book review link-up, but totally understood. I mean keeping a linkup running for 8 years is incredible! But since it's been such a part of my (blogging) life I decided to continue posting my reviews on the same day even without the linkup. So imagine my surprise when I saw that my friend Lauren had decided to start another book review linkup on the same day! Amen!! So without further ado, here are my reads from July. 

Island Time - Georgia Clark: 5 Stars
Netgalley



I absolutely loved how complex this story was, within a seemingly breezy rom-com! Even though there was quite a large set of characters, each one had a distinct voice and personality. I loved how the story unfolded from each of their perspectives. I wanted more from the epilogue (how far out was that set, about a week? too short), like how each member was faring in their new lives, but I really enjoyed how messy the author made these characters- as a family, and as individuals, and the pliability and realism in their relationships. I also liked how the author described everything; the island- I could actually feel the cool breeze off the beach(!), the terror during certain storm scenes, and resilience of each in the face of devastating and drastic changes. She also seemed to have a strong grasp of the ecology of the island and explained so without shoving climate change down the reader's throat and without standing on an environmentalist soap box, which I appreciated. 

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I loved this reverse locked-room mystery! Basically, "Boston Public Library is quiet, until the tranquility is shattered by a woman's terrified scream...four strangers, who'd happened to sit at the same table, pass the time in conversation and friendships are struck. Each has his or her own reasons for being in the reading room that morning—it just happens that one is a murderer."

I immediately liked Freddie and Cain. I liked that Freddie was also an author who was in the library that day to work on her book. I loved that one of the other strangers sitting with her picked up on her nicknames for them (ha!). I found Marigold to be a bit too young and absolutely too intrusive in the others' lives. But I think my favorite part may have been learning about Freddie and her obsessive fan, who we only glimpsed correspondences of from him to her about her upcoming book. I knew at least two who DIDN'T commit the murder in the beginning, but was left guessing for anyone else, which leads to a solid murder mystery to me! 

BOTM; Own
Trigger warning: addiction


In LaCour's first novel aimed at adults (as opposed to YA), she takes two women and tells us their story from teenagerhood through adulthood. These two women seemingly have nothing in common, except their experiences with addiction. I'm usually a big fan of FF romance, but something didn't sit right with me when progressing this one. Sara's life is complex and hard; Emilie is like a silly girl flitting around using her parents' money. Their "connection" felt too sudden and forced. I actually originally gave this 4 stars but I can't remember why, so I'm giving it 3. 

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Oh, Rainbow. You've let me down again (but not as bad as you did with Fangirl). This was....fine.  Ok, maybe it wasn't you, it was me. I don't typically like stories involving science fiction, magic realism, or ::shudder:: time travel, and that's what you gave me. In summary, Georgie and Neal have been married for a long time, they're have some struggles, and then Georgie has to work over one Christmas vacation, when they normally got to Kansas to visit Neal's family. So Neal packs up the kids and goes without her. And then she calls his house, and *somehow* (through some "magic phone") gets to talk to a younger version of him. Like, when they first started dating version. I was intrigued by the premise but underwhelmed by the execution. I'm all for a HEA, but I would've liked some explanations. 



Currently Reading: The Last Anniversary - Liane Moriarty


Book Stats (recounted this month)
Total number read: 22
Owned: 14
Library: 8
E-book: 15
Physical book: 7
Non-Fiction: 3
BIPOC Author: 3 (same)
Given Away/Paperback Swap: 12


What are you reading?
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