Tunery Tuesday: PVC Pipes

C shared this with me and I thought it was pretty amazing. This guy is playing on PVC pipes...ridiculous! And it sounds awesome!! Enjoy!

Monday Funday

(1) What's your favorite fast food establishment?
Lately it's Burger King, but I like Taco Bell once in a while as well.

(2) What's your favorite sport to watch on TV?
I like football cause I can watch it with C.

(3) Do you like mushrooms and onions?
Umm...no.

(4) If you had to get a tattoo tomorrow, what would you get done?
Why do I have to? Am I going to die unless I get a tat? If so, then a heart with wings and a crown. Kinda like this, minus the skull in the crown:

(5) What are your thoughts on the female proposing marriage to the male?
Not for it. I'm all for a girl asking a guy out or for a phone number, but I feel that the guy is only truly ready for marriage when he does the asking. Plus, it's way more romantic. And I am a romantic at heart <3





Questions:

1. What is your favorite way to eat chicken?
With mozzerella cheese and marinara sauce :)

2. Have you decorated for Christmas yet?
No. I don't really feel like a house is decorated without a tree. We're getting one next Saturday.

3. What is your favorite article of clothing?
Hmm. I love jeans. And sweats when I'm home.

4. Do you pay your bills online or write checks the old way?
I pay my rent with a check, but the others I pay online.

5. Do you make Christmas cookies?
No, but hopefully I will this year! I just received an email from a friend for a girls baking day! Never heard of such a thing, but it also involves booze, so I'm in!

A Few Good Quotes

So after shampooing the carpet yesterday, we decided that today we should tidy up...the rest. I got the dining room table, which was so cluttered we wound up eating dinner on our coffee table in the living room. It was quite a Hoarders moment!

I make lists of everything. I see something really true, cute, or something that makes me laugh, I write it down. So while I was cleaning up, I found this list of quotes I had collected. Enjoy!

"Sometimes it's best to remain silent about the good things being birth in your life. Not everyone can appreciate your joy!"

"The teacher is always silent when the test is given. When God is silent in your life, you are being tested."

"When you forgive people, it's because you still want them in your life."

"The problem with life is that it's so daily."

"Quickly, bring me a beaker of wine, so that I may wet my mind and say something clever." -Aristophanes

Thanksgiving and then Some

You Are Festive

You are an open minded, happy go lucky person. You don't need a reason to celebrate. You are prone to overindulgence. You have a hedonistic streak, and you enjoy spoiling yourself. You find yourself liking so many things, it's sometimes hard to juggle them all. You prefer to have busy, adventure filled days. There's so much to do that you rarely get bored.

The Thanksgiving Dinner Test

Blogthings: We're Not Shrinks, But We Play Them On the Internet

Ahhh, so true! I love quick quizzes!

I have returned! Oh joy! I have been a bit...distracted...by work. Distracted and pissed off, hence my lack of blogging. I don't like ranting unless I have a good reason for it, and I think I was just being more whiny than ranty. But anyway, I'm back! And I am loving this mini-vacation I'm having! I've been off since Wednesday! Woot woot!

C had a half day on Wednesday, so a little while after he came home, we went out to Borders. We each had a 50% off one item coupon, and the store close to us is going out of business, so the other stuff we bought was 30% off! Unfortunately I can't say what I got, but we bought quite a few things, for not a lot of moolah. Always a plus! Then I went to get my brows and nails done. I hate getting "done" unless it's hair. It's always painful- I don't understand why so many people love it. But I did get an awesome color:

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Then we came home and I made 2 pumpkin pies, one for my great aunts, and one to take by C's family dinner.

Thanksgiving day was...busy. I was up at 7:30, got ready, and got on a train to NYC to see mom.

I was surprised by how crowded it was. Not like, regular commuter-time crowded, but still more than I expected. Usually on weekends and holidays it's pretty dead. I was just happy to get a window seat. So that took an hour and a half until I was in Penn Station. I had totally forgotten, however, that it was right in the heart of the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade. HAAA!

But amazingly, Penn Station wasn't more crowded than usual either. Odd.

But then I had to board a subway to go up to 100-something street to meet my mom, so we could go to my (fake) great aunts' apartment. (They are not really related. They are the aunts of our very good family friends, who we have done Thanksgiving with in the past. But they are in Florida, so we visited the aunts). That took another hour. I like going there because they are some of the best cooks, and very nice, however, I don't speak Spanish, and they don't speak English, so communication is difficult to say the least. Luckily, my mom plays translator (though she likes to add her own commentary, but that's another story). The plan was to "stop in", drop off one of the pumpkin pies and some flowers, say hello, and leave. Then we were going to go downtown and see a movie like we do on most holidays. But, like most occasions with my mom, it did not go as planned. Even so though, it went off without a hitch- no fighting! At all! Miraculous! We got there a little before 12, and they wanted to feed us (very Hispanic/Latin trait, but I'm still not used to it)! And with the aunts, you

DO.NOT.SAY. NO. It's not allowed.

So we sat down and ate. And I am soooo glad we did. The turkey was absolutely delish. I don't know how they did it. I think they said something about leaving it in vinegar for over 24 hours to kill germs or something, and then roasting for...like, a long time. After I heard about the vinegar I did not want it at all- for sure I thought it would taste ya know, bitter. But it was moist- like melt in your mouth. It was served with black beans and rice, candied yams, and this stuffing that was...different, but in a good way. I believe they said something about having ground beef and possibly sausage in it. I wish I had a picture to share, but unfortunately, I forgot my camera, and didn't think to take one with my camera phone. But, you'll just have to take my word on it- a huge, gorgeous turkey, roasted to perfection, and scrumptious sides. Actually, here's a decent example:

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Except, substitute the plantains with caramelized sweet potatoes, darker gravy on the rice with beans, and pumpkin pie instead of flan. Oooh and they served us wine! Before 12! Scandalous indeed!!

So, that was filling. And delicious. But by the time we were done with that, it was time to head back to Central Jersey. On the train. Which was very crowded. I was lucky to get any seat at that point. But I made do. C picked me up at the train station, and we had just enough time to go to Thanksgiving dinner at his  aunt's house. His parents, and one of his cousin's and his family were there already, but I wouldn't say we were late by any means. Before and after dinner, we were all looking through these old pictures that were taken out. It was funny to see C so young...and boy, did he have his own "style"! Very, very....interesting.

The meal itself was completely traditional and delicious. I liked their candied yams better- less...candy. I don't like super sweet stuff. Have I mentioned that Thanksgiving dinner is one of my absolute favorite meals?!? It really is. And everyone looooooved my pumpkin pie. :D  Really, his aunt was surprised that even his little cousins liked it. Hooray!!

Today we have been super lazy as well. We slept in, then watched movies until about 4. Then we got up and out,...to go rent a carpet shampooer. Who wants to shampoo the carpet after a day of lazing around? Apparently C. So we moved everything around, I vaccuumed, and then he shampooed. It looks (and smells) great in here! And now he's cooking dinner. *my hero!*

I have yet to try my pie. There is a sliver in the fridge calling my name...I think I'm gonna go answer it! Hey, one of my favorite slogans- "Life's short, eat dessert first!"

*nom nom nom*

Five on Friday

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1. What is your favorite part of a Thanksgiving meal?
Stuffing. And pumpkin pie.

2. Are you a host or a guest for Thanksgiving this year?
Guest every year, and definitely like it that way!

3. When you think of one Thanksgiving tradition, what comes to mind?
In general, I think of men watching football. For me, it's going to the movies with my mom and watching like, 3 at a time, sneaking in obviously! We didn't get a chance to do that this year though.

4. You have two pieces of pie in front of you and you HAVE to eat one...do you choose pumpkin or pecan?
Umm PUMPKIN!!

5. Are you a Black Friday Shopper?
No no NO! I have gone in the past, but that was before people were literally killing each other to get a good deal. No thank you. I got a great deal on Black Friday ONLINE, and I plan to buy a few more things online on Cyber Monday, but I am not interested in literally fighting off crowds for a steal.

Sunday Stealing: Questions a la Randomness, A Meme

Cheers to all of us thieves!

What was the last thing you put in your mouth?
Coffee.

Can you play Guitar Hero?
Haha, I have, but I wouldn't say I did it well!

How late did you stay up last night and why?
11:30. I was tired before that, but was fighting sleep to watch the end of When in Rome. Such a cute movie.

If you could move somewhere else, would you?
Yes!! I would move closer to work! Not very exciting, but it's such a fun town, and close to NYC, not to mention saving myself massive amounts of money and stress with no commuting!

Have you ever been kissed under fireworks?
Yes! But not in recent years because at the usual Fourth of July Jimmy-Jam, C is one of the one's setting off the fireworks. Men!

Do you believe ex’s can be friends?
Not if they were in love. Or maybe so, but not for a really long time. Still testing that one out.

When was the last time you cried really hard?
Errrmmm... I really can't remember, which I would say is a good thing!

What items could you not go without during the day?
Coffee, my cell phone, my ipod, money or my ATM card, my driver's license (form of ID is always important, never know what's gonna happen!),... I think that's it.

Who was the last person you visited in the hospital?
I think my grandpa.

How do you feel about your life right now?
It's ok. I really need to start moving forward though. I've been a bit stagnant lately, and I need to begin re-focusing my goals and setting up a plan to reach them. But in general I'm happy.

If we were to look in your facebook inbox, what would we find?
Lots of unread messages and approx. 3 pokes. I've had a poke-war with these people for years-  I'm not gonna give in first!

Say you were given a drug test right now, would you pass?
For sure. I don't do drugs...unless you count alcohol.

Has anyone ever called you perfect before?
Yes, but I was able to prove them wrong.

What song is stuck in your head?
"If It's Love" by Train. I love it- it's been on replay on my ipod a lot lately, even though it's not very new anymore.

Someone knocks on your window at 2:00 a.m.: who do you want it to be?
"Ed McMahon"- good answer! I can't think of anyone else I'd want knocking at my window at 2 AM unless C isn't with me.

Do you think too much or too little?
I think too much about things of too little importance.

Where are your feet right now?
In crew socks, in fuzzy slippers, tucked under my chair.

Do you believe in fairy tales?
No, but I like them. I'm a huge fan of happy endings.

Have you ever licked the back of a CD to try to get it to work?
Yes. I've also tried blowing on it Nintendo-style!

Do you like pickles?
Not in the least.

What’s the largest age difference between yourself and someone you’ve dated?
6 or 7 years. My mom was not too pleased with that one.

Have you ever been on a blind date?
Nope.

Do you have any friends that you’ve known for 10 years or more?
Yes, but just a few.

Are you a good tipper?
I give the standard if they do a good job. If not, than they definitely see it in the tip (or lack thereof!).

What’s the most you have spent for a haircut?
Somewhere around $150. I have to say it was well worth it though, and if I had that much I would surely do it again, or at least at the same place.

Have you ever had a crush on a teacher?
I have a crush on a teacher now (Hi, C!) ! Other than him, no.

What song do you want played at your funeral?
"I'm Like A Bird" by Nelly Furtado and "I Will Always Love You" by Whitney Houston. I actually have a list. A bit morbid, perhaps. But whatevs, it's my funeral, I want it done right!

Would you tell your parents if you were gay?
Yes. I had a friend who didn't for years, and though it almost killed his dad, they were able to work it out. I can't imagine not loving your child just because of his/her sexual orientation. Plus, I wouldn't want to live a lie. We should be free to love whoever we want.

What would your last meal be before getting executed?
Thanksgiving. I want turkey, mashed potatoes (sweet or regular), gravy, cranberry sauce, mac and cheese, stuffing, green beans, (to name some parts) and finishing off with pumpkin pie. It is my fave meal, but just slightly above chicken parm. If they're gonna give my some dry-ass turkey, then just give me the chicken parm.

Do you walk around the house naked?
I have, but not all the time.

What do you do as soon as you walk in the house?
Put down whatever I'm carry.

Who is the person you can count on the most?
C. Without question. My mom is good, but she's not very dependable.

What did you dream last night?
I don’t remember.

Have you ever been in love?
Yup, I'm in love now!

Do you sing in the shower?
Occasionally. I used to sing a lot more when I was younger. But then came college- you can't sing in the shower in the dorms without everyone thinking you're a freak. Now I occasionally do it if C isn't home!

What is your favorite Holiday?
My birthday. It should be a national holiday. Other than that one,  I think New Year's Eve/Day. A time f new beginnings.

Would you ever get plastic surgery?
I don't think so. I would love some new boobs, but I can't handle pain.

Have you ever caught a fish?
I have!! Nothing big, but definitely have gone fishing and caught several fish!

What is your favorite lunch meat?
Turkey.

Do you still have your tonsils?
Yes

What is your favorite cereal?
Coco Krispies

Do you untie your shoes when you take them off?
Not usually.

What is your favorite ice cream?
Chocolate chip mint, followed closely by pumpkin pie and ice cream cake flavored ice cream (it's got the crunchies in it!)

What is the first thing you notice about people?
Height? If they are closer, then eyes and/or smile.

What is the farthest you’ve been from home?
I don't know what's farther, Hawaii, or the top of (one of the) Alps in Switzerland. One of those.

How did you meet your spouse or significant other (or most recent one)?
Through mutual friends.

Where was the last place you drove (other than home/school/work)?
I haven't driven in years. I think the very last time was moving my car across the street for parking purposes.

Procrastination

There was no time to procrastinate today, so look forward to some Want it Wednesday...tomorrow. I leave you with this...enjoy!

Tunery Tuesday: Florence and the Machine- Dog Days Are Over

I can't believe it's Tuesday already!! AAAAHHH!!
Though yesterday was super busy, I was actually quite successful. I had a meeting with (one of) my boss(es), and it went well! FOR ONCE! Halle-freakin-juah! See, he put me on the new task force he created recently, and he has been such a damn PITA about every little thing...it's super annoying. Like, I can't make any decisions without checking with him first- he likes micro-management. I hate it. But whatever, it's his project and I agreed to work on it- hell, I was excited to start a new project, so I can't really complain though I totally will.

Then at night C and I went to our friend's place to watch the Eagles vs. Redskins...ya know, McNabb vs. Vick. HOLY SMOKES!!! I wasn't really interested in football at all until I joined an all-girls fantasy league and even now I'm not that into it but anyway. So anyway, I have Vick on my fantasy team, and he blew up last night! He scored me an extra 46 points!!!!  Not to mention I was already beating the girl I was up against by the end of Sunday night by 45 points! She didn't stand a chance! I hope the Eagles can do it again next week against the Giants!!

Anywho, without further ado, I give you 2 baby videos. They are SO. CUTE. And I am totally loving this song too- very upbeat and fun...I'm doing my chair dance a la the dancing baby!




And just for shits and giggles...Enjoy!

Sunday Stealing- The 14 Question Meme

Cheers to all of us thieves!

1. Lots of pillows or just one? Describe your pre-sleeping rituals.
Just one. Pre-sleep rituals are taking out rolls for lunch the next day, setting up the coffee maker, getting water, setting the clock, and going to bed.
2. What kind of books do you read?
Depends on my mood- sometimes chick lit, sometimes best sellers, sometimes whatever people are talking about.
3. What are your neighbors like?
Our upstairs neighbor is cool because we barely ever know when he's home. Though we can't figure out what he does for work and he comes home at strange times. And sometimes he wears a Kongol hat, like Samuel L. Jackson circa early 1990's.

4. What's really creepy to you?
Blood, creepy crawlers indoors, other stuff.
5. What's your current fandom/obsession/addiction?

6. Do you prefer your junk food sweet, salty or savory?
Depends. I guess usually crunchy
7. What was the last thing you expensive bought?
My birthday dress.
8. What is your greatest fear?
Death, or being terminally ill.

9. Do you get cravings? If so, what do you crave?
Sometimes. Usually I require chocolate.
10. What do you do to change your mood?
Listen to music, talk to someone...
11. What was the last meal you ate that you loved?
Spaghetti and meatballs
12. Do you want to learn another language? If so, why?
Yes. So I can communicate with more people and understand my grandpa when he talks to me.
13. What's something that you'd like to say to someone right now?
Love you!
14. What are you looking forward to?

21 *Daring* Questions

Do you dare take my challenge? You can be as virginal or risky as you want. Its grab my hot button, answer the questions, and link on up!


1. Have you ever fascinated about someone of the same sex?
I've wondered what someone of the same sex lookds like naked. Does that count?

2. How do you feel about condoms?
I hate them. They're uncomfortable, but they are necessary...depending on the number of people you are sleeping with and your desire to get pregnant of course.

3. How important is sex to you on a scale of 1 to 100...
Good sex is important...like 76...ish?

4. How often do you masturbate?
I don't. Well, at least not alone...

5. When you fake an orgasm could you win an oscar?
I've been lucky enough to never have to fake an orgasm.

6. Have you ever seduced someone?
Most certainly.

7. Have you ever had a one night stand?
Nope. Not into that. I like to know who's getting into my pants.

8. How do you feel about phone sex?
I've done it, but it's not half as satisfying as the real thing.

9. Do you look at porn on the internet?
I have, around the same time as the phone sex. But I don't anymore.

10. Would you pose naked in a magazine for 10,000 buck aroos?
How naked? Oh screw it....yes I would.

11. Have you ever tried Tantric Sex?
No...that sounds like a lot of work for an orgasm.

12. Are you a sex initiator?
I will if I'm horny.

13. Are you addicted to Sex?
Not at all.

14. Sexiest part of a womans body?
Anywhere there's a curve...hip, calf, shoulder...

15. Are you into bondage?
No.

16. Do you like to be tied up or be the tie-er upper?
Again, not into it.

17. Longest sex session?
Afternoon/night. There was a slight break in between.

18. naughty or nice?
A little of both.

19. Do you like to be spanked?
Yes I do. A little.

20. Did you ever have sex in your parents bedroom?
No, I wasn;t sexually active when I lived at home.

and lastly...
21. How many toys do you own?
Just one.

I'm a Maxx-inista!

Sorry for the grumpiness yesterday. I just don't understand why some people do what they do. Anyway, last night definitely got rid of any and all grumpiness-- my momma took me out shopping for my birthday! (Which isn't until next month, but I don't mind one bit!) Actually, she started working part time at the brand-spankin-new TJ Maxx at Columbus Circle in NYC, and she had discounts because it was the opening day of the store, and she said I could get whatever I want!

WHAAAT! Ummm suuuuure, thanks!

If there's one thing I don't mind doing with momma, it's shopping. Though she doesn't seem to understand my style at all anymore. She kept picking up these slutty less conservative pieces for me, like midriff baring shirts?? I guess I used to dress more...provocative...back in the day, but now I'm a working woman (wait....that sounds like the opposite of what I was trying to say...oh, whatever) with a long-term, steady boyfriend! Plus, I've simmered down a bit...ya know, living out in the sticks and all, and there's nowhere to where such nake-y pieces to anymore, and somewhere along the way I lost the interest to do so.

All in all, I only spent about $120. Not too shabby for about 5 sweaters and a pair of gor-ge-ous Guess heels that go absolutely perfectly with the little black dress I raved about on Wednesday! I've decided I'm going to wear that to my birthday dinner...which reminds me, I have to purchase it stat before they're out of my size!

My fave (sweater) purchase:

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Cotton and angora pullover, crew neck sweater with a detachable ribbed cowl neck.

Long sleeves, ribbed cuffs and hem, silver designer-embossed tag at side of hem.
Perfect piece for fall days, like today, and incredibly versatile. Wear this sweater three ways!
1. As shown above 2. As a crew neck pullover 3. Instead of a scarf, wear the cowl neck with any outfit

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Hop on over to My Little Life to participate!

1. What is the most physically painful thing that has ever happened to you?

Hmmm... I've actually been very lucky *knock on wood*. I guess the worst was before I started taking BC. I would have to take off from work because I was doubled over in pain due to cramps, and sometimes even getting physically ill. Monthly.

2. How much sleep do you get at night?
about 7 hours, give or take about a half hour

3. How long did you believe in Santa Claus? How did you find out that he does not exist?
Wait...what?? He's not REAL?!? Ugh this is THE WORST way to find out!

4. What was the last movie you saw in a theater?
It may have been Eat Pray Love. I think. It's been awhile.

5. What do you wear to bed?
Nothin. *wink* But I lounge in sweats or yoga pants and a tee when I get home from work.

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Head on over to A Girl in Pearls and a Boy with Toys to participate!

I was planning on either staying in tonight or going to the movies with C (not that I even know what's out, but it sounded like a good idea), but then my good friend A invited us and another couple out for dinner- specifically Trenton Tomato Pie. I looooove tomato pie- it was actually one of me and C's first dates. If you've never heard of such a thing, which wouldn't be so odd because I'd never heard of it and I'm from New Jersey, it is:

"Compared to every other kind of pizza, Trenton tomato pies are put together backwards. Cheese and toppings go on first. Only then comes the tomato sauce—seasoned, crushed plum tomatoes, to be precise—spooned on with the individual pizzamaker’s signature flair.

It wouldn’t be a true tomato pie if there was tomato sauce in every bite, as in a regular pizza. You don’t want sameness in every bite. You want the tomatoes to have a bit of bulk and gather themselves in little red hillocks on the pie.
...there is one name synonymous with Trenton pizza—specifically, tomato pie—it is DeLorenzo." -from here.

So tonight we are going to DeLorenzo's! Woot woot!
Tomorrow C has to teach Saturday school half day, and then we need to run some errands, and do some of the basic straightening up/clean up, because on Sunday we have his cousin's kid's 4th (?) birthday party.

What are your weekend plans? Happy Weekend!

Thursday Bug

I had a whole post written about all the things pissing me off lately, mostly work-related, and somehow it just deleted itself.


UGH.

Wednesday Want-Its: Work Clothes and a Hot Dress

I neeeeeed this dress. And it's on sale. Sah-weeeet.

This fake leather moto jacket is awesome as well...

I love that this dress is long sleeve, and would look good day and night.

Ann Taylor wool pencil skirt, on sale from $110 to $60!

This gorgeous new color from the Essie Winter Collection, available this week: Masquerade Ball

Tunery Tuesday: Stereo Love- Edward Maya ft. Alicia

I just love this song. It makes me happy every time I hear it. It probably has to do with the foreign sounding beat. Enjoy!

Monday Minute!

Link up with Christy here to participate!

Questions:

(1) What's for dinner tonight?
That is a very good question. Probably take out as C has to do grades tonight for his classes.

(2) Have you ever been stung by a bee or a wasp?
No! *knocks on wood*

(3) What time do you go to sleep every evening?
Around 11:30

(4) What's your favorite ice cream flavor?
Choc chip mint, but only if it's green. I won't eat it if it's white. I don't care if it's only mising the green dye. So, if that's unavailable, I go for pumpkin pie (in season...like now!) or Ice cream cake flavor...with the crunchies. Or if I'm home, it's Ben & Jerry's...personal fave is the brownie sundae one.

(5) If you could have one power, what would it be?
The ability to (selectively) read minds. Not all minds, just tune in to certain people whenever I want, and have like a radio dial so I can switch the stations...That would be awesome.

Sunday Stealing, Snooki, and Weekend Update

Cheers to all of us thieves!

1. What do you consider your hometown to be?
A small town in Northern NJ

2. What’s the hardest part of your average day?
Waking up

3. The easiest? Why?
Being home because C makes dinner and I can just relax

4. What beverage do you reach for to quench your thirst?
iced tea or water

5. What is one not-so-secret goal you have for your life? I’ll let you keep your secret ones to yourself.
Own a home

6. What physical pain do you fear most? For example, I’m trying to decide how bad my jaw pain needs to get before I risk a potential needle from my dentist. So, for me, throbbing is preferable to jabbing.
the chronic kind

7. Where do you find solace?
in bed, on my couch, with C, and in chocolate

8. What makes you the saddest when you read/see the news?
I don't watch/read the news because it's all pretty depressing unfortunately

9. What do you eat for a favorite snack?
chocolate, chips, hot n spicy cheez-its

10. What movie could you/would you watch more than two or three times and still enjoy just as much as the first time?
just about any romantic comedy...except sex and the city. I didn't love that movie

11. What boy/girl first made you cry?
Matt Sinatra in 7-8th grades. what I remember most was when he asked me when my boobs would come in- I was completely flat-chested. I was a late bloomer, and even now I have small boobs...and a complex about them.

12. What brand of coffee/tea do you drink most often?
Folgers

13. Dig in the dirt with or without garden gloves?
gloves please.

14. James Taylor or Carly Simon?
neither.
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I am obsessed with all things Jersey Shore related, especially if Snooki or DJ Pauly D are involved. So, I apologize in advance, but it's only 18 seconds long. :)

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One of the things I don't understand is how my body processes alcohol. Like, it doesn't make sense. Also, how some things don't occur to guys as they would do girls.

So Friday night, I get off the train and C picks me up,...and tells me that his friend J is in our apartment. I don't care- J's a cool guy- until I walk into my apartment. It is a wreck. And C had off all day. Actually, C had off for 2 days, and the first day he spent doing nothing (which is fine- I would've done the same) and day 2 he did a couple errands and nice stuff like dishes. But...if you know your friend is coming over...wouldn't you straighten up at least a little?? I mean, it was like he didn't even seee the mess! And of course, I'm all embarrassed, but it was too late. *Sigh.*

So I chilled for a little, then we went out for C's bday at a nearby bar. C doesn't like to make a big deal out of his bday. In fact, his bday was last week and he didn't even send an email to his friends about going out for a few drinks until this week. And, our friends live all over the place. So we get there, and eventually 2 other people come, but that was it.

And I was upset/mad.

I mean, he sent the email to more than a few people. He sent it with a week's notice. And, we make a point to attend everyone else's everything- bdays, engagement parties, weddings, child's bday parties, no reason parties- everything, so it's pretty shitty that they didn't make the same effort. Of course I didn't mention it to C, because I didn't want him to feel the same way I was especially since he really didn't seem to mind at all. But I was pretty pissed. Especially at the girl who said she wasn't feeling well. Because not only did we got to her reception here for her destination wedding barely 2 months ago, we also went to Mexico for her wedding. Her bday was about a month later, and C was dealing with his toe (story coming soon) and he had a cold. So I really feel like she was bs'ing and didn't want to come because C was sick for her bday party. And yes, I do think she's that petty. Especially since we found out that Sunday-Tuesday she was partying it up in Atlantic City with her girlfriend....and then she's suddenly too sick to come out for a few drinks by Friday? I'm not buying it. But whatever, that's just me.

It was fun nonethless. We were with good people, no drama or bs, and drinks. But then the next morning, I wake up with a hangover. I couldn't have had more than 5 beers. I know I'm little, but usually I can handle 5 Jack and Cokes,...and then  have a hangover. But only a few beers? Crazy!

So I nurse my hangover all day, because by nighttime we're heading to a friend's wine and cheese party. That was lots of fun. Well, until the end when I made a minor social faux pas which I will blame on the a-a-a-a-a-alcohol! I even got hit on by one of the guests...yeahhhh I still got it!

I woke up today- after having more than a few glasses of wine- and no hangover! Sweet. I still barely did anything all day- watched a bunch of movies, went grocery shopping, and did some laundry- and it was wonderful.

Hope everyone else had a great weekend!

Almost time for some fun!

1. If you could have any talent and turn it into an occupation, what would it be?

I think fashion designing or wedding planning would be fun. Though today I saw someone listed as a "Flirtation Coach" ...what? I'd be down for that!

2. Would you rather have a house at the beach or a cabin in the woods?
Neither, I like living in a suburb and going to the city. But if I had to choose...beach house.

3. Is there any meaning or reasoning for the names you chose for your child/children?
No children, sorry!

4. What is your guilty pleasure? (I know we've done this one before, but I'm guessing people's "guilty pleasures" change frequently. At least, mine do!)
It was Jersey Shore, but it's over. :( I hate Sister Wives, but I can't stop watching...like a train wreck! And blog- hopping...C hates when he's around and I'm not paying attention to him because I'm reading blogs!

5. Do you live in a house that is deep cleaned or straightened?
Who has time for "deep cleaning" anymore? Sorry, I work full time...we're lucky if we keep it straightened up. That's a weekend chore.

Tonight: Carl's bday drinks at Dublin Square! Can't wait to see some friends we haven't seen in awhile.

Tomorrow: Wine and Cheese party at my friends, The Rays. Should be interesting- I've never seen their place. I've never been to one of their parties (unless you count a brunch a few months ago, which I don't), and I don't even remember the last wine and cheese party I went to. But it includes 2 of my favorite things, so it is sure to be awesome!

Sunday: Either Carl's cousin's daughter's birthday party, or going to see Grandma. We aren't sure if the birthday party is this Sunday or next.

Happy Weekend!

Tunery Tuesday: Marina and the Diamonds- Oh No!

I found out about this UK singer from Amy over at Turn to the Music. She (Marina, not Amy) kind of reminds me of Lily Allen with her "intellectual pop." I'm sure this won't be the last time she featured on my Tunery Tuesdays. Enjoy!