Originally, this was just going to be a super whiny, ranty, post. And as cathartic as that may be, it would also be useless.
I don't actually want to be ranty and unmotivated. So I'm trying to "look on the bright side". Of course, I couldn't do it for all of these so called "problems," but I attempted. Here goes:
Problem: I am unmotivated.
Solution: Maybe if I actually did something useful instead of whine about crap, I would feel better. People have real problems. There are real issues in the world that are far bigger and badder than anything I could possibly whine about.
That doesn't make me feel better.
I don't actually want to be ranty and unmotivated. So I'm trying to "look on the bright side". Of course, I couldn't do it for all of these so called "problems," but I attempted. Here goes:
Problem: I am unmotivated.
Solution: Maybe if I actually did something useful instead of whine about crap, I would feel better. People have real problems. There are real issues in the world that are far bigger and badder than anything I could possibly whine about.
That doesn't make me feel better.
Problem: I am having an ugly day... you know those days when you just throw on whatever, but you don't feel "cute"? And because my outfit isn't cute, I am unmotivated to put on make up.
Solution: Put on some damn make up and try again tomorrow.
Solution: Put on some damn make up and try again tomorrow.
Problem: My office is empty. Most of the staff is at a training in Texas. Until Thursday. It's too quiet in here.
Solution: Get over it. They're coming back Thursday, and you complain when they are hear blabbering about nonsense anyway. Enjoy it! Put on some music and get to work.
I'm liking this one right now.
I'm liking this one right now.
Problem: 2 of my friends don't work here anymore, and that makes me sad.
Solution: none found. Womp.
Problem: My other friend is out sick. She is my lunch buddy. For the last 2 days, I haven't left my desk at lunch, and that makes me sad too.
Solution: Get up and go outside for a walk. Or just sit. Just go outside.
Problem: I had a cute day yesterday, but no one noticed because my friends aren't here and 3/4 of my office is out. Or maybe it wasn't that cute, but I felt cute, and isn't that half the battle?
Solution: Take a picture. Put it in the rotation.
Problem: I don't have a lot of work to do. And I'm really tired of "making up projects" to look busy. The little work I do have is super boring.
Solution: Talk to people. Offer to help others. But first, do the boring stuff.
Problem: Going to work and going home in darkness sucks.
Solution: Seasons change. Again, get over it!
Problem: I want a whole day to read. Or bake. Or blog, but with pictures and interesting stories. Or attempt to cook some of the amazing recipes I've been pinning.
Solution: Take a vacation day. You have plenty.
Problem: I want a vacation.
Solution: See above. And below.
Problem: My mom wants me to go to PR before the end of the year. I wanted to go on a birthday vacation for my big 12/12/12.
Solution: Take a vacation day. You have plenty.
Problem: I want a vacation.
Solution: See above. And below.
Problem: My mom wants me to go to PR before the end of the year. I wanted to go on a birthday vacation for my big 12/12/12.
Solution: Take a birthday vacation to PR? I actually never thought of that... maybe this is more helpful than I thought!
Problem: I want to not hurt my friends by saying insensitive things. Even if it was an accident.
Problem: I want to go home and not plop my big booty down on the couch and not move for the rest of the night. I want to have the energy, motivation, and time to do things.
Problem: I want to end the cycle. Wake up, get ready, go to work, be bored, go home, eat, repeat.
Problem: I want to not be so dang. whiny.
Solution: Write it out!
What do you do when you're unmotivated or generally blah?
I'm your newest follower! I know what you mean about being bored with the daily routine. Maybe you don't enjoy your job and need to look into a different field.
ReplyDeleteI can absolutely relate to majority of your problems. Just let it out, girl. Venting helps. I am known for whining but then I learn to suck it up and keep moving.
ReplyDeleteAnd I giggled on the one where you said you looked cute yesterday but no one noticed...happens to me all the time!!
Hope you feel better! Sending good vibes.
Wearing a cute outfit when nobody gets to see it sucks. And when you are having an un-cute day, it seems like you see EVERYONE you know.
ReplyDeleteChin up, tomorrow's a new day! :)
I think I really needed to read this post. :)
ReplyDeleteI'm going through a lot of the same things/feelings right now. I try to be positive. I know you've heard the saying "Just slap on a smile"...even if you're temporarily faking it, eventually it feels natural.
Also, there's that quote attributed to Einstein...something about "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results." SO - I try to make some changes, not necessarily big ones, just Different!
Hope this helps...if I lived closer we could go have a margarita. Ha! :)
such a good entry~ I totally hear ya about 'blah' days... i basically just bitch to my boyfriend... or watch short shows like 'the new girl' or '30 rock'
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Hey, we can't all be peachy mofos all day everyday! This is what makes you human and that's a-okay. I like your problem/solution approach as sometimes I just sit and whine about everything. Oops! Sounds to me like you're in need of a vacay. Go see your family and get the hell out of town. Both of those things tend to warm any soul. In the meantime, maybe taking a Monday off to give you a three day weekend would help you out? Lord knows we all need a little break from time to time.
ReplyDeleteHope your week gets better!
HAHAHAHHAAA! Loved reading this post! This is so me and I generally give myself the same advice of "Get over it". Hard to be self motivated though. I relate. Being outside generally makes me more motivated, but the getting outside is where problems occur because I'm too damn lazy. ;-)
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Usually I make lists. I actually make TONS of lists and my goal to get motivated is to be able to check things off the list and cross them out. It helps.
ReplyDeleteif you are having a cute day, always always always take a picture! post it to instagram for all of your followers to see or just save it and re-create that look again for another day, like when you go somewhere with friends. i love outfit pictures! lol
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