Weekend Updates

Obviously I'm still not on schedule quite yet. Not sure what's taking me so long, I just feel kind of out of it. Maybe it's the January Blues? Anywho, here's what's been up over here:

Thursday:
I made dinner for RJ! I was pretty nervous, because I'm still learning how to cook, to the point where I don't let other people eat my food (unless it's desserts- I can actually bake!). I surprised him with Philly cheesesteak sloppy Joe's and he loved them!! Unfortunately I was so consumed with trying to get it right that I didn't take pics- gah! Oh well, I'm sure I'll be making it in the future since it was such a hit and super easy!

Friday: 
Headed straight to our favorite bar for a few beers. Then we ordered some pizza and had a quiet night in.

Saturday:
We were supposed to go ice skating, but the freezing rain made the roads too dangerous to venture out. Not gonna lie, I was a bit disappointed. Instead, we went grocery shopping and made an amazing pork tenderloin with yellow rice. Have I mentioned how much I love my crockpot?? Seriously, it's fantastic!

After we ate we headed back to the bar and hung out with RJ's sis (K) and her bf. It was supposed to be a chill night, but by the time we got there K was already drunk and ordering more shots. And then this happened...

Shot wheel! Shots Shots...Shots shots shots shots!

Sunday:
Another lazy day. We woke up super late, but thankfully NOT hungover! We watched The World's End and spent half the day trying to figure out dinner. I was craving Cuban food, but the nearest places all closed at 5... so we went for Thai instead. It was delicious!

How was your weekend?

A December to Remember (pic heavy)

While I may be a Grinch about the holiday season, a lot of fun stuff happened in December. 

For example, I turned 30! I know a lot of people worry about turning the big 3-0, but I was pretty excited about it. 

My actual birthday fell on a Thursday, so it was pretty quiet. I took off work (duh) and chilled all day. The at night, I convinced a few fools to come out to a local bar and drink and play Cards Against Humanity (my absolute favorite game) with me.

I forgot to take a pic, but luckily my girl K did! 

Friday was my birthday party at Lucky Cheng's. It's a drag cabaret dinner and show in NYC. I was super excited because I'd never been, and heard great reviews from friends who went for birthday or bachelorette parties. Let's just say you have to go in with a very open mind!

Drags in action

Not shown: the part where I was called on stage! All, um, 16 people in my party were pointing and screaming at me when the drag queens asked for volunteers. I tried to crawl under my seat, but to no avail. I was selected with 7 others. What were we asked to do? Well, we were paired off (4 girls, 4 guys) by the drag queen, Miss Japanese F*ckin Bitch, and had to give our "partner" a lap dance for a minute... in front of everyone!!! I was SO embarassed. And RJ was none too thrilled, to say the very least. But I did win 2nd place! (I lost to a lesbian and gay guy...who can beat the gays, especially in a place like that?!

See that guy with a skirt in his face? That's my friend who got called on stage and was victim to a lap dance!

Also not shown: The part where my friend almost got into a fight! I actually missed it because I was at the bar taking shots, but apparently someone was yelling at the coat check girl over her, and bumped into her or touched her, and she went OFF... like to the point where a drag had to take her downstairs to "calm down". By the time I was notified and got there, she was back upstairs and the girl who knocked into her was gone. Talk about drama! But at least everyone was ok, and had a good time!

Medieval Times, a pic with our waitress, and a group shot!

Oh yeah, I also went to Medieval Times a few nights later since it was free admission for me and it's literally 2 minutes away from where I live. Not gonna lie, I freaking love that place! 

Other than birthday celebrations, I did some shopping...

Bath and Body Works candles- by far the best.candles.ever.

 (Re-) Met RJ's parents (I already met them; I was friends with his sister since high school and they totally remembered me)... I was an accomplice. RJ got them out of the house to "meet" me for dinner, while his sis and her bf got and set up a Christmas tree, and we surprised them with it! Their expressions were truly priceless!

("And the Grinch's heart grew three sizes that day")

family photo

 I got Christmas presents... this one was by FAR the best one! RJ got me a flat screen TV with a DVD player! I was in *shock*. Like literally. My current TV was a hand me down and was bulky and smaller and fuzzy. 

He also got me a Phillies hat (not pictured)- which is a huge deal since he hates them- he's a die-hard Mets fan.

setting up my new TV!

 I didn't want a tree. But my mom said it wasn't Christmas without one, so she bought me a small pre-lit one the day before Christmas. We didn't bother decorating it, but it's still up. I kinda love it actually. 

tree on my toy chest that I've had since I was 5

 I ate a lot of sushi...

yeah, I ate it before the pic- my bad

 And drank a lot of these two... 

Lil whiskey girl, all the way

Oh, we had an office party, where I did this...

And a work after party where we sang carols and drank ridiculous amounts of red wine at the open bar...

RJ and I went to NYC...

 This is Bryant Park

 And of course we had to see the tree at Rockefeller Center!!

In between Christmas and New Years there was more day drinking, sushi, and basically being lazy bums, and then it was time for New Years, which is one of my favorite holidays! Unfortunately I didn't take too many pics, but basically we went to two house parties near me, and a bar (RJ's sis lives above a bar- very convenient!). And it was perfect!!

New Years kiss, Zombie RJ after a mind eraser, and group shot

And just because I found them, two links regarding the new year:
20 Things to Let Go Of Before the New Year
25 New Years Resolutions Everyone Should Actually Make for 2014

Sometimes Shit Gets Real...

One of my "resolutions" (ugh, hate that word) for this year is to get more real on here. Because let's face facts: life isn't always rainbows and butterflies and glitter shooting out of your ass- sometimes life kinda sucks. And I like reading when others get real, so why am I so worried about doing the same? (confession #1)  This may be a bit heavy, but here we go...

- RJ is moving and I'm super upset about it. But I won't say anything to him about it because I know he  doesn't want to move further away from me, but it makes sense to because his commute is so long and expensive.  And I don't want to upset him about it by telling him how I feel. It's not that far (1 1/2 hrs), but being that I don't have a car, I feel like I'm going to be a "weekend girlfriend" and I really, really don't like it. 

- I haven't told him about this lil space of mine yet. I will, just not yet. 

- I found out on Monday that my great-aunt may have cancer. She's getting some more tests done, but it doesn't looks good. If prayer is your thing, please send some this way. 

- I haven't spoken to my mom since the day after Christmas. I called for New Years, but she was sleeping (so she says). We have always butt(-ed?) heads, but it hasn't been this bad in awhile. I know I need to just let go of my anger towards her, but every time I try, she does something even more infuriating, leading to more unanswered texts and phone calls. But I'm trying. 

- I have been super lazy lately. Being off from work for the holiday break when I'm not a "holiday" person was good in a way, but also kind of depressing, and I didn't want to participate in anything holiday related- I didn't even want a tree but my mom forced it into my apartment (a little fake one, the day before Christmas). I thought I wanted to send out Christmas cards, I even bought them, but then I just didn't. And now I feel really guilty about it. So, if you sent me a card, THANK YOU! I really did appreciate it, and I'm sorry for not reciprocating! Hopefully I'll be more jolly next year. 

What are you confessing today? Share it here!

Annnnd We're Back! Currently: 2014

Oh well hello there! 
I have returned from my completely unintentional hiatus! 
And as it's always hard to think when you come back from such a long break, I'm just gonna do a Currently: January Edition. 
I'll have some actual updates up soon! 

Reading
Nothing. So bad. But I did get Allegiant so I'm hoping to get into that soon!
Have you read it? I've heard mixed reviews...

Writing
2013 recap, 2014 goals, to-do lists, grocery list, and to-buy list (mostly more presents for others)

Listening
Tyler Ward ft. Lindsey Stirling- Some Kind of Beautiful... I love the violins and the lyrics

Thinking
What's a good side dish for sloppy joe sandwiches? I want to make them tonight.
  
Smelling
Lunch 

Wishing
That I could find some ankle boots that actually fit and don't make me look like I have skinny little chicken legs.


Hoping
For warmer weather! I really really don't like the cold, or winter. 

Wearing
Layers upon layers upon layers. Because it's -14 degrees here. I have on fleece leggings under work pants, a tank top, a thermal long sleeve, a white button down, and a thick sweater. I also wore two scarves today when I was outside. And my winter boots, even though it's not snowing, because they're extra warm. Hmph. 

Loving
the corniest answer everrrr... 
Also, the fact that the holidays are over! (I'm a Grinch, #sorryimnotsorry)

Wanting
A couch! Currently I have a chair or an air mattress in front of my TV in my living room. I moved in August- I need a freakin couch! Mom promised to get me one as a bday/Christmas present, but no word on it since, so I might just get it on my own. Also, I want there to be a DSW closer to where I live or work- I have a gift card that burning my wallet and I really need new shoes!

Needing
To get back on track. I have been super lazy about everything and really need to get back in the swing of things!

Feeling

A little behind on life, but Happy! 

Thirty!

Linky Love:

20 Things to Know Before You're 30

20 Things 30-Year- Olds Should Remember

Sagittarius

Though I may not read my horoscope daily, I still believe that I am a true Sagittarius. Don't know what that means? Here are some traits that are usually associated with Sagittarius:

Optimistic/ Idealistic:
Sagittarius  are often very successful at what they try to do. This is partly due to their optimistic outlook and self-confidence. They often have big dreams. They may also be quick to fall in love and easily disappointed.

Restless/ Loves to travel:
They often enjoy exploring new places and meeting new people. The more Sagittarius  learn and experience the happier they are. Sagittarians' closest relationships are often based on a shared love of adventure. Basically the Sagittarius can be defined as one who seeks to reach a particular goal and once she accomplishes that she will work toward accomplishing another goal in his/her life.

Blunt/ Tactless:
They sometimes lack tact and diplomacy and can be brutally honest. She says what she thinks and how she acts shows what she feels. This bluntness may cost her heavily at times. Usually, she is very calm and composed. However, when you become rude to her or offend her, she may become like the fire-spitting dragon. A Sagittarian  may pass the most sarcastic comments when she is angry, but she will forget the resentment soon enough. Then, she won't understand why are you so upset.

{This has actually happened to me}

Philosophical/ Intellectual:
Sagittarius is the truth seeker of the Zodiac. They will strive to find the truth about everything, and are naturally curious and inquisitive about everything. They need constant intellectual stimulation and challenge. In situations where they do not have enough to keep their minds occupied, they are prone to getting bored easily. As a result a loss of interest in a situation may cause them to become irritable. One of the things Sagittarius women look for in relationships is intellectual compatibility.

Unemotional:
This is not an overly-sensitive sign, and when criticized, they listen carefully to the feedback. The Sagittarius woman is very sentimental and emotional, though it seems otherwise. It's just that, where her feelings are concerned, she becomes too shy. She is enthusiastic about life and trusts easily. In fact, this extreme belief makes her heart vulnerable and defenseless. It gets broken too often, but then, she knows how to move on with life. She will be on to Plan B in no time. She would act as if she's not hurt at all and it is just one of the many harmless flirtations she's had. People will even believe all this, while inside she will be weeping and nursing her wounds. All this time, she will be analyzing what went wrong and when.

Energetic:
This is in line with the ruling element of the sign which is fire. Sagittarius women have incredible staminas which other signs may find difficult to keep up with.

Other stuff:

The Sagittarius woman is very enterprising and resourceful. She is always on the look for ways she can fulfill her dreams. She is also very adventurous with an abundance of creative fire and the need for excitement and different ways to widen her horizons.
By any means necessary is one of my mottos. 

The Sagittarius woman is usually attracted to those she feels are in distress because this allows her to provide help to someone else. Sagittarians are generous with their time and energy, and genuinely like helping other people succeed.
This explains why I wanted to be a school psychologist and/or guidance counselor, and even a recruiter.

Completely impartial, her friendships come from all walks of life and are made up of people of all nationalities and cultures.
Yup, completely true. Which makes large get togethers somewhat difficult- so many different personalities!

Her attitude to beauty is "if it's all natural, it's all good". She can be great fun at slumber parties, cajoling everyone into trying avocado face packs and making their own night creams. She may even sit still long enough for a pedicure. But in normal circumstances, her beauty routine is haphazard and the only thing she can be counted on to wear is sun block.

Completely haphazard- some days I'll be fully made up, other days I have nothing on my face at all, and don't care!

If you want to get something done from a Sagittarian female, just ask her; don't order. She will never ever do it. She is your better half and don't you dare forget that. On the other hand, she doesn't want a sissy for a husband or boyfriend. He has to be a real man, who has his ego and won't stand for nonsense. So, you will be expected to balance politeness with firmness.

I REALLY don't like being ordered around; you will get much farther with me if you just ask. And I like for a guy to be able to stand up for himself, but who doesn't?!

What's your sign? Do you agree with it?

"In December every sign has it’s own mode

I was in love with a Sagittarius

See the emotions he put me through

I was in love with a Sagittarius he blew my mind

He also had a flip side too much like a Gemini

He was freaky like a Taurus the way he handled me yeah

Flirtatious like and Aries

I can’t explain why I love him

Bossy like Leo’s do

Got game like an Aquarius

Switch moves after he’s been with you

Fun like a Libra

He stays on my mind

He’s so unpredictable

He reminds me of every sign"

Beyonce- Signs

Weekend Update: Family, Friends, and Football

Friday: RJ and I were supposed to have a cute NYC date, but there was freezing rain. So we met with a few of his friends for some karaoke, and then went to see his other friend DJ nearby. I also had one of the best shots ever. I forget what it was called, but I kid you not, it tasted like Christmas. It was amazing. And I don't even like shots!

Saturday:

My aunt was recently in the hospital, but she just got out, so my mom and I went to visit her. But first we went to the mall by Columbus Circle to get a little gift. These beautiful stars changed colors! I also got a few early bday presents! I'll share those soon!

Sunday: My girlfriend and I got a great deal from Living Social to see the NY Jets! Even though I'm an Eagles fan I still went, because I just love going to football games, and this was my second one ever! It was super cold out (30 degrees, but felt like 20, according to TWC), and we were in the nose bleed section (literally one row away from the back wall of the stadium!) but it was still fun. It was my first time at this stadium, and they won! Woot woot!

How was your weekend?