Monday, December 27, 2010

Snow Day Monday!

Here in New Jersey, we just got a heck of a blizzard!! And I would have totally taken a snow day today (via work closing down or me just taking the day- no way I was gonna try to make the hour commute in this weather!), if I didn't have this whole glorious week off! WOOT WOOT!!

So...I am trying to be at least a little bit productive every day. Even if it's just little things that aren't really important  important, but are on my mind's "to do" list. So yesterday I:
  1. watched and cleared "Pieces of April" from my DVR. It was an ok movie, a bit slow in parts, but overall pretty good. Any movie with a happy ending is a-okay in my book. Though it hit a chord with me on the whole "family" concept.
  2. clipped coupons and went grocery shopping...in the blizzard. But, I saved ~$15 in just coupons, and total ~$35! And we got a ton of food!
  3. watched/cuddled through "Whip It." I was really excited about this movie. It was ok I guess... ya know, happy ending. But again, a bit slow in parts, and a little repetitive. the story was meant to follow her through all the falls and bruises as she works her way up in the world of roller derby, attempting to lead her team to glory; I was hoping it would give some more insight into the actual sport of roller derby, but it did not. But it was ok.
  1. Got lots of coupons. Sometimes I feel like couponing takes ahold of me- it's like a fight to get the best deals...and it amazes me how many are out there for the taking! And it's like a victory when you find a really great deal/coupon...can't really explain it. Guess it's just my inner dork shining through!
  2. Uploaded pics from my camera...from October (C's bday) through Christmas. And posted to FB.
  3. Lit the fireplace for the first time this season and watched the blizzard! Not on any "to do" list, but still fun!
And today:
  1. Did some laundry- bedding, placemats, and bath rugs. Now to fold the whites that were in the dryer (argh!), and put the sheets back on the bed. This may be my #1 least favorite chore. It's in close competition with vacuuming. C is very particular about his sheets. I could care less. And really, my only real qualm with vacuuming is getting the vacuum in and out of our very small coat closet.
  2. Scoured the stove, particularly the...burner covers? I don't know what they're called, but the steel/metal thingies under and around the ranges. Omg...they were gross. We tried to wash them in the dishwasher, but that didn't do anything whatsoever. So I scrubbed them down...took some time and work, but they are almost sparkling now!
  1. Cleaned our Brita. Which had been sitting on our counter for at least 3 days.
  2. Did the dishes, Part 1. Part 2 is waiting for me... (Did these 3 things while C was out shoveling. Love him!)
  3. Went to see "True Grit" with Jeff Bridges ("The Dude" from "The Big Lebowski"- so funny) and Matt Damon (very in character...awesome). I was a bit skeptical about going...I'm really not into Western style films, but we went on a double date with friends, and it was actually quite entertaining. Though I had some trouble understanding what Jeff Bridges was saying...he's so mumbly! But there were laugh out loud parts, and it was engaging, and like, not just a "shoot 'em out" film- there was a storyline that I got into and understood. I wasn't too fond of the ending...it just kinda...ended, with no real resolution, so to speak. Again, hard to explain. But apparently that's how Cohen Brothers movies end, as C explained to me. Overall, I would recommend though. Even though I wanted to see Little Fockers...hmph.
  4. Used our Crock Pot! We got a crock pot from C's parents for Christmas. I had requested it, because I hear that basically you throw ingredients in and it cooks it for you, and that's the kinda cooking I'm interested in! So we found a beef stew recipe online, and went at it. We set it before we left to the movies, and it was ready about 2 hrs after we got home. It was good, for our first time ever using one! (I keep saying "we"...really it was C who did all the prep- cutting veggies, cleaning meats, seasoning, etc.) So it was good, but definitely needed more seasoning. And more time in the crock pot (it was in for 6 hrs, but after we started eating it we reset it for an extra 1.5 hrs...the recipe said 5-8 hrs, but the veggies were a little crisper than we would've liked). And we have TONS of extras.we are only 2 people,...we have servings for at least 6.
So we're going to give some to his parents tomorrow and we have some for lunch, and then there's more which we don't know what to do with yet. That's not mentioning the extra veggies C cut- our new crock pot is only 5 qt., and I guess the recipe was for a bigger crock, because we had a ton of veggies that we had to take out just to make room for the meat! So we will probably make a stir fry with the extras in C's new-ish wok! Oh and P.S. C had  to get his wok in NYC's Chinatown. No other wok would do (I suggested one from Macy's or JC Penny's...obviously that was not "authentic" enough).
I would include a list of things I hope to accomplish tomorrow, but I don't want to get ahead of myself. Planning would mean taking on the guilt of things I do not actually accomplish tomorrow, and I don't want any of that. Though I do hope to get a Swimming Monkey from Target. I mean, how cute is he??!


So for now, I'll just enjoy my belly full of stew (and beer!), the ending of the Saints/Falcons game (hey, I think the Saints just won! ....Not that it matters much, Eagles are already the NFC East Champions- woot woot!! Can't wait to see them tomorrow!), and enjoy our fireplace!

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Almost Done Shopping!

I am almost done Christmas shopping! Hooray!

C spent all of yesterday shopping. Best Buy, Barnes and Noble (I don't actually know why he was there- they didnt have what we needed, and I wound up just ordering the things online anyway), and the Mall (dun dun duuuuun!) Though we had to go back to the mall when I got home because he forgot his Macy's coupon! I'm so glad I've *started* to get him into using coupons- you save so much! He was able to get his old student a really nice jacket taht was supposed to be at least $70 (on sale) for only $40!
So of course I also had to grab my free lip item with any purchase coupon for Bath & Body Works- I bought $1.50 PocketBac (woulda been a dollar, but it was one of the holiday edition ones...smelly yummy!) and got a $7 lip gloss!
What I love about this lip gloss is....erm...everything!!! Seriously- a hint of color, supa shine, and mint taste and smell...and ultra-hydrating. And $7.50 (but now free?!) ...best.thing.ever. I seriously own at least 3 of these. In different colors for the seasons, obvi!

 And my free Sea Salt french fries coupon from Wendy's! We have been wanting to try them since we first saw the commercials. But I didn't really taste anything different than normal fries, which was a bit disappointing.

Thursday, December 16, 2010

I've Got "Cheryl Lynn - Got To Be Real" In My Head...

C has been complaining lately. He's been complaining that I don't write "real" blog entries. Whatevs.

I think a lot. And then, I try to forget.

I don't know why I do this, but I do. So I distract myself with TV, reading other people's blogs, magazines, anything I find interesting on the interwebs...and do memes. I guess it's just easier to write when I'm given a specific question to answer and write about. I don't have to think as much. I get lazy. And I try to forget.

It's not that I don't have things to say- I do. I spend half my days thinking of interesting things to write about. I have almost as many "drafts" of posts that I do "published" ones. True story.

Some things are happy, but more are sad. And then I feel bad that I'm thinking negative thoughts and about to post them, because who wants to read (and rethink) negative thoughts all the time? Not me. But then I think "Well, it's my blog, I can write whatever I want." Especially since most of my "followers" are only "following" because they thought I would follow them back. [This is one of the things that has been bothering me for awhile. If I don't find your blog interesting, I'm not going to follow you. {I mean "interesting" in the broadest extent of the word...like sometimes I won't follow because you may have a family of five, and be a stay at home mom, which I think is cool, but I can't really relate...like, at all.} But I make no pretense of this. I never comment on other's like "Hey, found you from where ever!  I'm your newest follower! Would love you if you followed me back! insert link to their blog here."  In fact, if they don't make/add some comment about whatever I've written, I won't check out their blog. I think it's kinda rude to be all up on my blog, commenting about your blog, and not even have said one thing about what I wrote. Just sayin'.]

But, I spend most of my days in a perpetual state of being pleasant and shit. (I'm in customer service...sort of. So I gotta be nice.) I'm always smiling, always trying to be accommodating to whatever my coworkers/bosses ask, always welcoming coworkers and visitors with an enthusiastic "Good morning! Good afternoon! How can I help you?" Most of my coworkers love this about me. I'm always happy.

But I'm not. My coworker friends have said that they don't understand how I put up with half the shit I do, and how I can always be so nice and friendly. It never used to be, but it's become a chore. I used to be that happy all the time for real. Like I was on Prozac or something. But now most days, I smile and then say something completely mean and inappropriate under my breath. I know, it's awful. And usually I don't mean whatever it is I've said. I'm just annoyed.

I'm annoyed because I'm bored.

That's right, I said it. I'm bored at work. Not due to inactivity per say...my days are usually busy doing meaningless shit for people. Things that they can do for themselves but are too lazy/incompetent/"self-important". (This is also one of the things that has been pissing me off for quite a while. Can ya tell?) And, to BE completely rude and self-important myself,...

I didn't spend over $40K a year in private school and bury myself in debt so high I can just barely see over just to be someone's bitch. And I.DON'T.LIKE.IT.
But ya know, it pays the bills.

So. I'm done with being Prozac happy in my private, bloggy life. It's time to get real. And if that means negative, shitastic blog posts, so be it. (Minus of course the occasional-ish meme, because truth be told, I really do still like them.) This may mean less blog posts, but ya know what they say, quality over quantity. (Plus, writing "real" blog posts like this is exhausting.)

Oh, and I do realize that after publishing this post, I may lose half my "fanbase" but whatevs. As Marilyn Monroe said...

I`m selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control, and at times hard to handle, but if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.


Well said, Ms. Monroe, well said.

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Happy Hump Day!


1. What is your favorite smell?
Clean laundry, fresh cut grass, and rose. And C's cologne, and Nautica cologne.
2. What is the weirdest or strangest food/food combination you like to eat?
Bagels with cream cheese and Doritos. In high school we called it "The PV" (initials of high school). All the cool kids ate it...I still eat it when I'm feeling nostaligic. Or really hungry.

3.  If you could be reborn into any animal, what would it be?
Monkey. They're so cute and smart.
cute monkey! Pictures, Images and Photos
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{one} did you buy a christmas tree this year?
Yes!! C and I went Christmas tree shopping on my birthday and he set it up last night. Now we just have to decorate!

{two} what is your favorite holiday tradition?
My mom and I used to go to the movies on Christmas and catch 2-3 movies. I miss that!

{three} do you open your gifts on christmas eve or christmas day?
Christmas morning.

{four} at what age did you stop believing in santa claus?
I was pretty old. Being that it was just me and my mom, I didn't have any older siblings or anything to ruin the belief. I found out one Christmas morning through the radio station. Damn you Z100!

{five} do you fill stockings?
Yes, just little trinkets…

{six} handmade presents or store bought presents?
Usually store bought. I'm not the handiest.

{seven} do you have a favorite christmas meal?
Nope.

{eight} is your christmas tree real or artificial?
Real! Messy, but it makes the apartment smell good and it looks nice. I've almost always had real trees.

{nine} what is your favorite christmas song?
All I Want for Christmas is You- Mariah Carey and the Olivia Olson version (from Love Actually- love it!)



{ten} did you send out christmas cards this year?
No, but we bought the cards. I'm signing them tonight and sending tomorrow. That's one of my favorite things to do for Christmas!

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Monday!



Questions:

1. How do you order your steak?
Medium well.

2. Are you superstitious about anything?
Yes! Black cat, breaking a mirror, opening an umbrella indoors, any Friday the 13th, and walking under a ladder are bad luck, throwing salt over your shoulder, knocking on wood...I think that's it. Oh, and bad things happen in threes.

3. Who is your best friend (not including your spouse)?
A

4. When is the last time your wore a dress (for the guys...a suit)?
Friday night- at my birthday dinner!

5. Do you have any trips scheduled?
Yes!! Trip to VA in January, Florida in May, and (hopefully...fingers crossed!) India in November. And a trip to Puerto Rico somewhere in there...



(1) Who is your favorite actor?
Ryan Reynolds, Matthew McCounghey (not spelled correctly....my bad), Hugh Grant, Paul Rudd, Gerard Butler, and most recently Javier Bardem...basically if you have been in one or more romantic comedies, you're a fave.

(2) Do you collect anything?
Currently no. But I used to collect stamps and rocks, both quite seriously. Liek I've mentioned before, I'm a super nerd. Oh, and also shotglasses (from different countries) and Pogs. Do you remember those?!

(3) What's the biggest turn off in someone of the opposite sex?
Cockiness. I really hate that. And yes, there's a huge difference between having good self esteem and being an a-hole with a big ego.

(4) If you HAD to change your first name, what would you change it to and why?
I would change it to my middle name because I like it and it was still given to me by my parents.

(5) What virtue is better: forgiveness or justice?
I would like to be a good religious person and say forgiveness,...ok, yes that's the better virtue. But personally I favor justice.

Tunery Tuesday: M.I.A. - It Takes Muscle

I loved M.I.A. since she first came out. I love her fusion of sounds, and how she dares to be different. Though I may not love her latest album as much as her first, I really like this one. Enjoy!


Now the fear got in me
It's got in me deep
It's where it's gonna stay and never leave.
Someone come lay my worry
Someone come kill my pain.
Someone come and put me on my feet again.

It takes a muscle to fall in love
It takes a muscle to fall in love
It takes a muscle to fall in love
It takes a muscle to fall in love

We gotta love one another
That's what the good man says
But i got too much trouble
Going on in my head
Someone come and pick up my love
Take it all away
Cause I could break down tomorrow
If I don't die today

it takes a muscle to fall in love
it takes a muscle to fall in love
it takes a muscle to fall in love
it takes a muscle to fall in love
Ay

Monday, December 13, 2010

The Ninja Meme: Part 1

I'm not sure what this has to do with ninjas, but here goes!


Cheers to all of us thieves!

1. What do you add to your coffee?
milk and sugar.

2. What are you reading now?
This question.

3. Do you own a gun?
No.

4. Are you registered to vote?
Si.

5. Do you get nervous before doctor appointments?
No.

6. What do you think of hot dogs?
They taste great smothered in chili and cheese.

7. Favorite Christmas Song?
All I Want for Christmas is You- Mariah Carey or Olivia Olson (Love Actually)

8. What do you prefer to drink in the morning?
Coffee

9. Can you do push ups?
Yes, but I'd rather not

10. What was the name of your first boyfriend/girlfriend?
Matt

11. What’s your favorite piece of jewelery?
ring my mom bought me, and watch C bought me...and my new watch :)

12. Favorite hobby?
Singing

13. Do you work with people who idolize you?
Not at all

14. Do you have ADD?
Sometimes I think I do, but not really

15. What’s one trait that you hate about yourself?
Procrastination aka laziness

16. What’s your Middle name?
Melanie

17. Name 3 thoughts at this exact moment.
why would I ever reach out and touch someone's hair? (I just saw a commercial), Blind Side was such a great and inspirational movie (just finished watching it for the second time), I'm kinda tired

18. Name 3 things you bought yesterday.
A Christmas tree (yay!), a Christmas wreath (more yay!), and groceries

19. Name 3 beverages you regularly drink.
Coffee, soda, water

20. Current worry right now?
There is laundry that needs to be folded and I don't feel like doing it.

21. What side do you dress to?
Side? The female side? I don't understand this question. I like to be comfy.

22. Favorite place to be?
With friends.

23. How did you bring in the New Year?
With friends in my apartment...fun times.

24. Where would you like to go?
India and Australia. And Italy. And any and all tropical paradise type islands.

25. Name three people who will see today.
Hmm today is over for the most part...so tomorrow I will see C (duh), and his parents.