A Lesson in Polish

me: how do u see hi in polish again?

10:36 AM say*

18 minutes

10:54 AM C: I don't know how to spell it. Yahck shimash

  Say it like I spelled it

  Yahk shimash

10:55 AM Yahk shimaash

  Did u get it?

 me: is that a silent h

  in yahk

 C: Yes.

 me: why would u put in a silent letter when u tell me to say it how u spelled it!

 C: Not yak, like the animal. Yahk

 me: ok

10:56 AM C: Like open up and say ahh

 me: mash like mash potatoes

 C: Yahk

 me: ok ok!

 C: No not like mash

 me: like outkast hey ya

  with a k at the end

10:57 AM C: The "mash" is also pronounced like the "hey ya"

  Right. Yahk. Shi-m"ah"sh

 me: got it

10:58 AM C: :-)

 me: like maaa...the meatloaf! with with a -sh at the end

 C: Lol. Yes
I love our G-chat convos :)

Newport, RI Wedding Weekend Pt. 3

I didn't forget the ending of this mini-series! These were taken on our last day in Newport....or actually leaving Rhode Island. C wanted to take a "Fall Foliage Tour" on the way home, so we took the very scenic route. Unfortunately, his plans were thwarted by the still-quite-green trees! But we did have a wonderful Sunday drive!

All of these were taken near a lake in Connecticut...

and yes it was October and I'm in a tank top...it was really that warm!

scenic overlook

mural

C and waterfall

me and my beau

love the reflection on the water- C is a great photographer!

This was a little farm we found while driving that boasted having fresh maple syrup. It was kind of weird- the house was a refurbished farm (that part was awesome), and we had to drive around it to the back (following signs). We got out and walked around a little bit, looking for a person. When no one appeared, we figured no one was home so we started pulling away and were almost back on the "main" road, when a woman came around the house finishing a sandwich- apparently we had interrupted her lunch! But she was super nice, and we bought some real Connecticut maple syrup....and it is de-lish!!

Best Costume Yet

Everyone in these parts has been complaining about the snowstorm that hit yesterday, and the fact that a lot of them weren't able to go out and party in their costumes. Luckily, I had no such plans, and was more than happy to stay warm inside, plan my vacation to India (in just 18 days!! wooot!!), and watch movies. However, I did see this costume and it made me laugh out loud-- love it!

My friend's boyfriend as The Situation- Italy style

What have you been up to this weekend?

Spending Recap: October 13- 28, 2011

So. This is what the budget is supposed to be:

Other
Eating Out: $50.00/week
Shopping: $60.00/week
Entertainment: $25.00/week
Beauty/Wellness: $30.00/ month
Miscellany: $200.00/month


And this is what actually happened in 2 weeks:

Bills/Fixed Payments

Groceries: $50.00 + $30.00
Budgeted: $300/month
Total (including last recap's $40.00): $120
*I think I need to re-assess the grocery budget; closer to $150 or $200...

Shopping
FYE: $16.00 (present for C's mom)
Bath and Body Works: $30.00
Hallmark Store Candles: $20.00
Halloween Store: $48.00 (?) (present for godson)
2 presents for C
Budgeted: $60/week, so $120
Total: $114.00 (not including C presents)
Miscellany
Bachelorette Party Check: $86.00
*Not sure if the presents noted in Shopping should really go here? That might make more sense...Budgeted: $200/month
Total (including the last recap's $280): $366.00

Eating Out
C dinner: $55.00
V dinner: $25.25
Stevens: $7.50
Food with mom: $11.50
Budgeted: $50.00/week, so $100

Total: $99.25
Entertainment
Drinks with girlfriend: $35.00
Stuff at Pumpkin Farm: $20.00
Beer: $25.00
Budgeted: $25.00/week, so $50.00Total: $80.00



Umm. Yeah.
I don't even want to look at these numbers/budgeting anymore. I suck at this, apparently.

In my defense, I've had one friend, C's mom, and C's birthdays this month. And a wedding. And me and C's anniversary. That's a whole lot of very special occasions!!

However, I did not budget properly for all of this. I knew they were coming up. So,...that was my major mistake. I also did not use the envelope method as I said I would. I looked in my office and at home, and couldn't find envelopes, and thought that was a valid excuse. Noooo, no, no! I must get some envelopes. This is my problem with cash- I don't track it. If I used envelopes, I would be able to write down exactly what I'm spending on, when I'm spending it.

Le Sigh...

Happy Birthday Boo!

Today is C's Birthday!

Here is another dose of Scorpio info for my Scorpio man!

October 27 Scorpios are complicated individuals who like to walk on the wild side. Their quiet personality seems to hide something dangerous and volcanic. They can make others notice them because they're magnetic. While some might use this power to manipulate, they rarely attempt that.
I've actually never seen him be truly wild, but I have heard stories from his younger days!

Friends and Lovers
Few people make more loyal friends than those born on October 27. Their love nature is extreme. They love so deeply they nearly become the person they love. This has its drawbacks, including fits of jealousy. They are often involved in tempestuous love affairs.
He has never, ever been jealous. I've actually gotten mad about this. And not liking this "love affair" part this mentions!

Children and Family
October 27 people feel bound to their upbringing. Though they may have experienced an estrangement from family, they inevitably mend fences. They make good parents, although because of busy professional lives, they will depend heavily on a spouse for child-rearing.
He will be Mr. Mom and he will love it! Haha, just kidding! He is quite close to his parents though, and has a tat in memory of his grandmother on his chest.

Health
It's difficult for October 27 people to banish their all-or-nothing attitude from health matters. Either they faithfully adhere to a fitness program or they ignore exercise. Food and drink can be problematical for them. The downfall of many is their habit of taking huge servings. They need to eat five small meals rather than three huge ones.
Haha he doesn't exercise...and he does eat a lot! But he's not chubby miraculously!

Career and Finances
Because October 27 individuals understand the balance of power that exists in every relationship, they are canny judges of others. They make fine supervisors, mentors, teachers, and coaches. October 27 men and women have a common-sense attitude about finances.
He's a teacher! And he is good with his finances!

Dreams and Goals
October 27 people are very complex; they walk the tightrope between excitement and high risk. There's so much contradiction in their behavior that it's difficult to know how they'll react from one moment to the next. Those born on this date have the energy to accomplish amazing things in their lifetimes.
He's pretty moody, but loveable!

via

Happy birthday boo! Hope all your dreams and wishes come true! And hope you have the bestest year yet!

Newport, RI Wedding Weekend Pt. 2

The day after the wedding, the whole crew went to do a little sightseeing in Newport.

Our first stop? The Breakers- the summer home of the Vanderbilts!

Unfortunately, we couldn't take any pics inside the mansion, but I assure you it was over the top and gaudy as anything- many of the rooms were decked out in solid, brassy gold!

Like the view from our back patio?!

The following were taken on our "Cliff Walk".

Some other crazy big mansion. We didn't do the full 5- mansion tour, but this was one we saw on our hike.

the girls

I would like to point out my attire. You see, I thought Newport, R.I. in early October would be chilly. I insisted on purchasing those cute brown boots you see here the night before we left, as I didn't own any riding boots and was trying to be super cute. I dragged poor C to the mall and into at least 5 stores before he found these boots that I adore.

I did not, however, look at the weather. Nor did I bring any "warm weather" clothing.

Ummm...it was 80 degrees.

No joke. So here I am, in my cute boots, jeans, purple (long sleeve) shirt, and corduroy jacket. D'oh!

These are the Forty Steps. We did not walk up/down them, but here they are.

 "During Newport's Golden Age, the Forty Steps were a gathering place for the servants and workers from the nearby mansions." via

Lobster Roll:

I have never had a lobster roll, and I was on a mission to have one in New England before I left. I was NOT disappointed. If you have never had one, you need to. Just sayin'. It's basically chunks of delicious lobster (notice the full claw!) in I think just some mayo, atop lettuce and a savory, buttery, toasted roll, somewhat like a hot dog roll but not really. It was so good I had 2.

And, I was lucky enough to have it here, at Pick Pockets Deli, which boasts the best lobster rolls in Newport. I didn't have any others, but theirs was delectable.

After our mansion tour and lunch, we headed back to the bride and groom's bed and breakfast for a wine and cheese party.

The boo and I

The girls on the "bad girl" porch. The other guests were in the backyard, but we liked lounging in the sun in the front. Plus, we were too tired to be extra social- we just wanted to chill.

It helped that our guys were there too!

Conclusion coming soon!

3 Years

Dear C,

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I love you, even when you're being annoying...

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...and even when you make me mad...

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I love going on long drives and getting lost with you...

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I love the way our initials look next to each other...

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I love cuddling and snuggling with you....

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and being nakey and silly too...

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I love doing nothing together...

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I love your weirdness, your kindness, your wisdom and your smile. I love your hugs, your enthusiasm, your drive and your corny jokes (yeah, I said it!). I love our adventures and travels (and the fact that you sleep on planes... teehee!).

Thanks for 3 great years boo! Here's to a whole lot more!