February Goals

January Recap:

• Respond to emails/comments in a more timely manner- I think so? AT work, definitely. My personal email, still a work in progress
• Dentist appointment- nope
• Lady doctor appointment- check
• Fill in new planner- check
• Gain weight- Uncertain because I just realized that my scale is broken. 
• Participate in Erin's 8.0 Reading Challenge. (Ongoing until 4/30)- check!

(5) Freebie: Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar- Cheryl Strayed

(10) Starts with "L": Little Fires Everywhere- Celeste Ng

(10) Red Cover: Love in Lowercase- Francesc Miralles

(15) Name of Character in Title: Where'd You Go, Bernadette?- Maria Sempe

(20) Book Riot: Here Comes The Sun- Nicole Y. Dennis-Benn

(20) House/Home: White Houses- Amy Bloom

(25) Double Initials: Emma in the Night- Wendy Walker

(30) Different Language: The Invoice- Jonas Karlsson

(30) Form of Transportation(road trip): Jess, Chunk, and the Road to Infinity- Kristin Elizabeth Clark

(35) Physical Illness: Me, Earl, and the Dying Girl- Jesse Andrews Tell The Wolves I'm Home- Carol Rifka Brunt

February Goals

• Dentist appointment 
• Schedule iPhone battery fix
• Purchase a new scale 
• Get taxes done (scheduled for 2/22) 
• Continue working on Erin's Reading Challenge
• Upload, organize and delete phone pictures- there's no storage on there, again. sigh. 
• Book Florida vacation- we have a wedding in Key West in June so it's time to book it!
• Book another getaway- Blue is itching for a break in March (eek!) so need to get on that too.
• Clean out one closet- MUST. I've been throwing random things in there and gotta get it under control again! 

What goals are you working on this month? 

Linking up with The Peaceful Posse and Nicole

Currently: February

Reading: Jess, Chunk, and the Road to Infinity- Kristin Elizabeth Clark 

Listening To: Savior- Iggy Azalea ft. Quavo

Watching: My new favorite, 9-1-1. I just love Connie Britton! And the others in rotation, This Is Us, Ellen's Game of Games, Married at First Sight (S6), Grey's, Top Chef, Young Sheldon, Big Bang Theory, Blindspot, and slugging through the final season of Nashville. 

Considering: a Movie Pass subscription. For $10/month you can see unlimited movies. Just one movie is at least $12.50. I like going to the movies, and I'm not sure if we don't go more now because of the price or the time commitment, but it sounds like a pretty sweet deal to me. 

Researching: this Neutrogena Light Therapy Acne Mask. I've usually had pretty good skin, but adult acne is no joke and I suck at daily care. I ordered it and it's coming today. Blue already started making Storm Trooper jokes. 

Hearting: my new hat. The one I had received for Christmas was just too bulky, and I was really looking for one with a little visor. I love how slouchy this one is but also has a bit of elastic around the edges so it doesn't fall off. And it's so warm! And of course Blue, always.

not me, obvi. this was the seller on Poshmark

Wishlisting: this t-shirt  that Steph showcased from South Fellini. 

Finishing: the last of the Super Bowl leftovers.

Subscribing to: Cloud Library. I have no idea what took me so long either. I like physical books, but my library is currently transitioning to a new state-wide delivery system which is taking for-ev-er, and they've suspended placing requests during this time (as in, I've been waiting on one book for over 21 days already). BUT, I can still request e-books and it tells me the exact number of days it will take and I get an email when it's in. I love it and have been doing all of my reading this year via the app. 

Looking Forward to: An NYC-day seeing Waitress with Sara Bareilles and Jason Mraz and fancy apps and cocktails at Dutch Fred's this weekend, and a fabulous dinner at Becco next week. I freakin love Becco. We've been there twice before, and it's fabulous. Their menu changes DAILY, and they have never ending pasta. Seriously. They come around with like 4 different types and you can get as many servings as you want. The $31 bottles of wine and the hot bread with oils ain't bad either! 

Failing: At these brownie sundae bowls. I followed the instructions exactly, but it just ended up being a big burnt mess! Ugh! 

Making: This Philly Cheesesteak cheesy bread was a hit at my Superbowl party, and super easy for any busy weeknight! 

Ingredients:

2 tbsp. vegetable oil
1 large yellow onion, sliced into half moons*
2 bell peppers, thinly sliced*
kosher salt
Freshly ground black pepper
2 lb. sirloin steak
1 tsp. oregano
12 slices provolone
1 large loaf of bread, sliced in half (I used French bread)
1 tbsp. Parsley (I skipped this- it's only used for topping)

Directions: 
1. Preheat oven to 350° and line a large baking sheet with parchment paper. (I didn't have parchment paper, so I just used a large cookie sheet.) Heat 1 tablespoon oil in a large skillet over medium heat.

2. Add the onions and peppers, and season with salt and pepper to taste. Sauté until onions are translucent and peppers are tender, 7 to 10 minutes.

3. Push the vegetables to one side of the pan and add meat to the other side. Season with oregano, salt and pepper.

4. Let them sit for a minute or so to get a nice sear, then sauté on the same side of pan until mostly cooked through, about another 5 minutes. Toss everything together in pan to evenly distribute meat and vegetables. Remove from heat and set aside.

5. Scoop out the middles from both bread halves to create shallow boats. Place about half of the cheese on the bread then top with the steak and onion mixture. 

6. Add the rest of the cheese and bake until the cheese is melted and the bread is slightly toasted, about 15 minutes. Garnish with parsley and cut into long slices. Serve warm.

* I used a frozen 14 oz. bag of Bird's Eye Pepper Stir Fry mix instead. Worked and tasted just fine!

Adapted from delish.com. 

What's currently going on with you? 

Linking up with Anne! 

January Reflections

I feel like this has been a really short long month. Does that make sense? Probably not, but the end sure snuck up on me. 

Usually in these posts I recap all the fun stuff I did during the month, but I really didn't do much. I've mentioned it before, but January-mid-March is my hibernation period. All I wanted to do was curl up under blankets and read, which is mostly what I did. The only social outings were two birthday dinners and a cocktail party, but one person in the group had the flu and I was so nervous I'd catch it. Seriously- don't go out if you've already been diagnosed with the flu, people! It's not that hard! Anyway, here's what else has been going on. 

Health Life: I had a bit of a health scare in late December which I kind of ignored/didn't worry about and definitely didn't talk about until I started doing research and the big "C" came up. And then I had a minor freak-out but was talked down by the support of a certain group of friends (thank you guys!). My worries were further soothed after a second "exploratory" appointment where I was given the all-clear, but it was emotionally draining nonetheless. 

Work Life: My group got a new boss after not having one for 6 months. We were kind of floundering to be honest. It wasn't just the lack of guidance, but my group is a technical support group within IT and the other groups were taking advantage of us, using us to "support" whatever they wanted us to. I'm happy to report that I really like this new boss. After meeting and talking with us, he set out specific goals individually and for our group and he really seems to have our personal best interests in mind. I feel more motivated and purposeful than I have in a long time. 

Family Life: My mom locked her keys, purse, and phone inside her apartment earlier this week. This would not have been too terrible, but her landlord is currently in Peru visiting sick relatives and she didn't know if anyone else was home to be able to let her in, not to mention if anyone was around, they usually didn't get in until 10 pm (her landlord lives above her). So she was stayed with me for 2 days. We do not always get along and it was very difficult to coordinate when/where we would meet because, no phone. Luckily she was able to get into her apartment last night. Her birthday is later this month (where I will be dragged to east bumblefuck Connecticut to pull weeds out of the frozen tundra at a retreat center because that's what she wants to do... sigh) so hopefully all will go smoothly until then and she'll find/replace her things. TBD. 

Love Life: All good here! Blue and I celebrated our 3 year anniversary with dinner at one of our favorite restaurants. I gifted her Ed Sheeran tickets and she gifted me tickets to Waitress on Broadway and pretty much the coolest thing ever- a framed print of the night sky at the exact date, time, and location of where we met. I meant to take a better picture of it last night, but I forgot. You can kind of see it here: 

Other than all that, I'm really looking forward to the Superbowl this weekend because my team, the Eagles, are finally in it! We're having a few people over so I'll be making this Philly cheesesteak cheesy bread (because, duh, Philly) and "Super" brownie sundae bowls :) 

doesn't this look delicious?!

we may add capes for the "super" effect!

What's new with you lately?

January Recommendations

Product: Pantene Pro-V Curl Enhancing Spray Gel. My new go-to hair product for when I want to air-dry and go natural. It has a stronger hold than the Tresemme mousse I was using, it leaves my hair in its wavy/curly state longer, it reduces frizz, and it's easier to apply than mousse (as in, I don't miss giant sections of hair, particularly in the back). I also like that unlike most gels, it doesn't give my hair that crunchy feeling afterwards. And it's like $3 at most drugstores. Win-win. 

Program:  Target Gift Card Exchange Program- I originally saw this over on Anne's blog, but apparently you can exchange gifts cards from hundreds of stores for a Target gift card, fo free! Just bring those gift cards you're not using to a participating Target store for a gift card you can use in-store on online. 

Music: This list of Upbeat, Happy Feel Good Songs

App: HQ Trivia- A free trivia app that goes live every day 9P and every weekday at 3P EST in which you have the opportunity to win $2,500 in cash monies via Paypal. Of course, that gets split between you and the other winners across the country, but still! The only thing you need to put it is your name and telephone number. The host is super annoying and sometimes the app lags, but it's free and the questions get hard, which makes it more fun to play. (Use my code lildesiqua if you start to play, please!) Shout out to Lauren for getting me addicted. 

Book: "Love Is Love: A Comic Book Anthology to Benefit the Survivors of the Orlando Pulse Shooting." I will go into more detail about this on Show Us Your Books day (2/13), but I just started it last night and need to mention it here. I will state that I'm not normally a fan of graphic novels (or anthologies, for that matter) but this is so beautifully done, and the stories/comics are told from so many different perspectives and are so varied and loving. 

And now I've got a question for you. Are you using those Pop Sockets that attach to your phone? I've seen them everywhere, but I don't get the hype. If you have one, what do you use it for? It just looks cumbersome to me. 

What are some things you've found I need to check out? 

January Goals + Word of the Year

I'm aware that January is more than halfway over, but I've had this list (and have been working on it) since about the first week of the year; I just hadn't shared it yet. December was BUSY ('tis the season) and I took an unplanned hiatus from this space for awhile. While I'm still adjusting, I've been hygging it out for most of January. For me, this means keeping my calendar mostly clear, staying in, reading, and generally just giving myself a mental break. So far, it's going really well! Before diving in to what's on deck for the rest of this month, here's how I did in December. 

December Goals

• Deck the halls- Yup
• Enjoy bday in Vegas- Hell yeah! Post hopefully coming soon!
• Prett-ify: mani/facial/brows- 2/3, I'm calling it a win! 
• Re-evaluate finances- Nope
• Sell on Poshmark- Nope
• Make a holiday/Christmas wreath- Nope 
• Weatherize windows- Check! 
• That screen door though...- YES! (Only took like 6 months!)
• Participate in Alexandra's Live Your Best Life for Less (Holiday Edition) Challenge- I did 12 of them. I was going to list them but that seems tedious, and do you really care? 

60%- not too shabby! I'm sticking with monthly goals this year because it's seems to be what's working for me best these days. Like last year, I've chosen a word of the year. While I want to continue living by last year's "Choice" I also want to incorporate  "DO"- as in "do it now" or as Nike aptly puts it, "Just do it." I've been in the bad habit of thinking or worrying about something instead of actually taking action to get it done. This has been a bad habit for awhile now, and I think it's actually gotten worse. It's one thing I'd like to carry through with this year. Here are some of my smaller goals for January. 

January Goals

• Respond to emails/comments in a more timely manner
• Dentist appointment
• Lady doctor appointment- check
• Fill in new planner- check
• Gain weight
• Participate in Erin's 8.0 Reading Challenge. (Ongoing until 4/30.) I already finished 3/10 (as seen here) and working on 4 and 5, but I made a bunch of changes, so I'm re-writing it:

(5) Freebie: Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar- Cheryl Strayed

(10) Starts with "L": Little Fires Everywhere- Celeste Ng

(10) Red Cover: Me Before You- Jojo Moyes Love in Lowercase- Francesc Miralles

(15) Name of Character in Title: Where'd You Go, Bernadette?- Maria Sempe

(20) Book Riot: Here Comes The Sun- Nicole Y. Dennis-Benn

(20) House/Home: Tell The Wolves I'm Home- Carol Rifka Brunt White Houses- Amy Bloom

(25) Double Initials: The Accidental Life of Greg Millar- Aimee Alexander Emma in the Night- Wendy Walker

(30) Different Language: The Lioness of Morocco- Julia Drosten The Invoice- Jonas Karlsson

(30) Form of Transportation(road trip): Perfect Days- Raphael Montes 

(35) Physical Illness: Me, Earl, and the Dying Girl- Jesse Andrews Tell The Wolves I'm Home- Carol Rifka Brunt

What are some of your goals this year? 

Do you have a word of the year?

10 Random Things About Me

It's the start of a new year, so I wanted to do a re-introduction of sorts, and what better way than sharing 10 random facts about myself? 

1. In high school, I wanted to change my name to Melanie.
I got tired of my name and felt it was too long (mind you, my middle name is only one letter shorter). So I tried to get everyone, including my teachers, to call me by my middle name. I gave it up when in biology class, my teacher called on me to give an answer and I got it wrong. He said, "You were smarter as Danielle." 

2. My favorite number is 12.
My birthday is 12/12 and I was my grandparents 12th grandchild. 

3. I learned how to ski and scuba dive because of an ex.
My first serious boyfriend in college was an avid skier and scuba diver, and I didn't know how to do either. After about two years of being together, he started inviting me on family vacations to places like Mont Tremblant and Bonaire. His mom paid for lessons for both so I could participate. Skiing went fine, but I didn't get my scuba certification because I freaked out in the lesson trying to clear my mask and gave up. 

4. I get obsessed with researching things easily.
I'm not sure exactly how to explain this well. I guess one example would be when I was searching for an ancestry kit for Christmas, and it took me nearly 6 hours trying going through the details of each service and product available to find the best one. Or getting lost on Pinterest trying to find recipes with ingredients I already have on hand or with minimal effort. I fall into the rabbit hole or get distracted and it can take hours for me to realize and dig myself out.

5. Also, I'm a planner. 
No, not the kind with washi tape and stickers (though I do use my paper planner daily) but things like travel or event plans. Give me a project where I can plan something and leave me to it. I'm really good at planning itineraries and paying attention to details and I love doing it! Related, I also love making lists (yes, even grocery lists). 

6. But I still don't know what I wanna be when I grow up.
I'll probably write about this in detail at some later point, but for now I'll just say that I still don't know. When I was a kid, I wanted to be an architect until I learned how much math was involved and I hated math. Then I wanted to be a school psychologist or counselor and got my Bachelor's degree in Psychology, but didn't feel like getting my Master's right afterwards and soon realized I couldn't get very far in that field without one. I currently work as a User Support Specialist in IT and while I don't like it anymore, I don't know what I'd rather be doing either. 

7. I'm a pack rat.
A hard thing to admit in this age of minimalism! I save paper items more than anything, like greeting cards, old notebooks and journals, but I've also kept old t shirts from organizations I was a part of, a favorite risque halter from my clubbing days and the first pair of jeans my butt busted through. (There was a time in college when I was gaining weight rapidly and ripped 3-4 pairs of jeans in a row right in the backside. I was thrilled because I've always been underweight and was finally gaining.)

8. I don't want to own a home.
*gasp!* Isn't that part of the American Dream? I'm not interested. First of all, if something breaks, I have to fix it (or find and pay someone to fix it). Secondly, taxes in my area are off the charts. And third, I don't like feeling "stuck" anywhere. 

9. I haven't had cable in 4-ish years.
I cut it shortly after moving into my apartment to save money. I didn't have it as a kid growing up and I already had Hulu and Netflix so it wasn't a big deal. Now there are only a few shows I watch that are on cable channels but I use friends' accounts (because sharing is caring!). 

10. This video from 2003 still makes me laugh every single time I watch it, and I still say "I am le tired."  (Though with #45, the possibility of this actually happening is a little too much...)

Do we have anything in common? 

What are some random facts about you? 

Show Us Your Books

Hip hip hooray, it's book lover's day! Ok so maybe I'm a day late, but que sera sera. I actually read quite a bit in December/beginning of January and after several really great reads, I'm  still on a reading roll- huzzah! Here's what I read and what's on deck. 


Do This For Me- Eliza Kennedy: 3 Stars
I received an ARC from Netgalley in exchange for my honest review. 

I nearly got whiplash from the rate at which this woman goes from seemingly normal to straight up crazypants. After discovering that her husband has cheated on her, she sets about methodically ruining every aspect of his life. Though I found the process of her finding herself and sorting through her emotions and thoughts a bit slow-moving, I liked how well-developed and relatable Raney was and really enjoyed the story as a whole. 

"I don't want to be that woman, Doctor Bogard."
"What woman?"
"You know the woman. The one who's husband betrays her, humiliates her, disrespects her- and she stays. The one we've seen at a thousand press conferences, standing stone-faced as her dearly beloved apologizes to the world for whatever deceitful, depraved thing he did. That's not my story, Doctor. I reject that narrative. But..."

"We are mysteries to ourselves. We don't know anything. And maybe that's okay."


The Deal of a Lifetime: a novella- Fredrik Backman: 4 Stars
library hardback

I'm not a fan of Christmas stories so I was wary of picking this up (what with the Christmas tree on the cover), but it was so short and I wanted to see if I really didn't enjoy Backman's writing style or if I just started A Man Called Ove at the wrong time. I'm happy to say it was the latter. I read this in an hour and it pulled at my Grinchy little heartstrings. 

Little Fires Everywhere- Celeste Ng: 5 Stars

library e-book

This was the first I've read by Celeste Ng, and I finally understand all the hype. Do you know how many books I give 5 Stars to? Approximately 2 per year. Maybe I'm too hard on books?! Anyway, I loved how this story unfolded. I loved the writing style and language. I loved how it tackled a very difficult and realistic issue and the different viewpoints the story was told from. I wish that some of the side stories wrapped up differently, but I understand why they did not. I will definitely be picking up Ng's other novel!

Heating and Cooling: 52 Micro-Memoirs- Beth Ann Fennellly: 2 Stars

library hardback

Meh. I love memoirs, but I only liked 6/52 of these, and 5 of them were the "Married Love" series. Overall I found her completely unrelatable, pretentious, and downright boring, and like she was trying too hard to be funny. I was relieved when it was over and thankful that it was so short. 

Tell The Wolves I'm Home- Carol Rifka Burnt: 4 Stars

So. Many. Feelings. 

It took me a long time after reading to fully process this one. I liked how it described different kinds of love, even if some of them made me slightly uncomfortable. It was heartbreaking and heavy and had so many beautifully written passages, but I didn't feel like I truly connected to or even liked any of the characters other than maybe Finn and Toby.  

"Don't you know? That's the secret. If you always make sure you're exactly the person you hoped to be, if you always make sure you only know the very best people, then you won't care if you die tomorrow." (p 194)

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Also, after some careful consideration, I've decided that I will participate in Erin's 8.0 Challenge. I was on the fence because I don't like being rushed to read a certain number of books within a certain time period, but I also love a challenge! If you're unfamiliar with Erin's Challenge, the details are on Goodreads and Facebook. So far there are 87 participants! Here's what I'm hoping to read this time around.

(5) Freebie: The Invoice- Jonas Karlsson

(10) Starts with "L": Little Fires Everywhere- Celeste Ng

(10) Red Cover: Me Before You- Jojo Moyes

(15) Name of Character in Title: Where'd You Go, Bernadette?- Maria Sempe (currently reading)

(20) Plot Twist from this list: Here Comes The Sun- Nicole Y. Dennis-Benn

(20) House/Home in Title: Tell The Wolves I'm Home- Carol Rifka Brunt

(25) Author with Double Initials: The Accidental Life of Greg Millar- Aimee Alexander

(30) Originally Printed in Different Language: The Lioness of Morocco- Julia Drosten

(30) Form of Transportation(road trip): Perfect Days- Raphael Montes

(35) Physical Illness: Me, Earl, and the Dying Girl- Jesse Andrews

Linking up with Steph and Jana!