Friday, October 18, 2013

Book Club and Back That Azz Up!

Before I get into one of my latest reads I have to ask: When do you find time to read? Seriously. I used to read on my commute, but now that my commute is no longer two hours, I just haven't found the time. What's your secret?


This week I'm sharing...



From Goodreads:
"THE DEVIL WEARS PRADA gives a rich and hilarious new meaning to complaints about “The Boss from Hell.” Narrated in Andrea’s smart, refreshingly disarming voice, it traces a deep, dark, devilish view of life at the top only hinted at in gossip columns and over Cosmopolitans at the trendiest cocktail parties. From sending the latest, not-yet-in-stores Harry Potter to Miranda’s children in Paris by private jet, to locating an unnamed antique store where Miranda had at some point admired a vintage dresser, to serving lattes to Miranda at precisely the piping hot temperature she prefers, Andrea is sorely tested each and every day—and often late into the night with orders barked over the phone. She puts up with it all by keeping her eyes on the prize: a recommendation from Miranda that will get Andrea a top job at any magazine of her choosing. As things escalate from the merely unacceptable to the downright outrageous, however, Andrea begins to realize that the job a million girls would die for may just kill her. And even if she survives, she has to decide whether or not the job is worth the price of her soul."

My Thoughts:
I have to say I cheated on this one. I knew what the book was about long before I read it. I also saw the movie before reading the book (oops!).  And I can't say I enjoyed one more than the other. I thought they were both really funny! And I think the movie version stayed very in line with the book- and the casting was excellent! I gave this one three stars- it made me laugh, I could definitely relate to the characters, and it was a great for a quick, chick-lit read!

I do have another question though: What would you do in Andrea's situation when Emily gets hurt? I mean, the right thing to do would be to step up to the plate when your coworker can't perform, right? You don't sit back and let work pile up or act like you can't handle the workload when you know full well that you can... am I right?

I ask because I'm in a similar position at work. When I saw Andrea basically take over Emily's job when she got hurt, I was all "No! What are you doing?! You can't kick her out just because she broke her leg! She trained you! She helped you! Whatareyoudoing??" 

Except now, I'm Andrea. My coworker was out for two weeks due to a family emergency, and another week recovering from said family emergency. And then she was out for an eye surgery (one day). And now she's been out three days due to illness. 

My "department" consists of three people- the Boss, me, and her. The Boss makes sure we're doing work, but isn't dealing with the "customers".  (I work at a college, the "customers" are students, staff, professors... basically everyone who works at the university.  Background: I'm in a Customer Support Role with a brand spanking new (broken) Payroll System. If that makes sense. So there are a lot of "customers" with major problems because the system doesn't work properly, and therefore they aren't getting paid, are getting paid incorrectly, can't login to log record their hours or vacation/sick time, etc.)  

I just got this job July 1st. So I'm new to the department. However, I have been able to pick up everything with this new system quickly.  And my coworker, well, not as much. Not to mention she's been out a lot recently. So I've been picking up the slack. And when she IS in, half of my time is spent correcting her mistakes... not in a mean, malicious way, but because sometimes she misinforms the customers. So I tell her the right response, and let her re-respond to the customer. Which I don't mind, but...

Our review is coming up next week. 
And I'm not sure what to do. 
She is my friend. She does help me out. And I help her out. 
But this is my job. I want to excel. 
(And more money wouldn't hurt, she's making more than me.)
So... do I just act like everything is completely normal/fine? Or do I tell it like it is, as in I'm doing the brunt of the work? It sounds bad, but it's true. And yes, she's my friend and I don't want to throw her under the bus so to speak, but shouldn't the Boss know what's really up? I've gotten burned for "being too nice" and not speaking up for myself at work in the past, and I really don't want it to happen again, or be overlooked for not doing well either.
So... What would you do??

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Ok, too much heavy stuff--  it's time to get ready for the weekend with Whitney! I found this song via someone retweeting Sia's tweet, and I absolutely love it. That could be because Diplo is on it, and he is awesome sauce.



"And another one bites the dust
But why can I not conquer love?
And I might’ve got to be with one
Why not fight this war without weapons?
And I want it and I want everything
But there was so many red flags
Now another one bites the dust
And let’s be clear, I trust no one
(Pre-Chorus)
You did not break me
I’m still fighting for this
(Chorus)
Well I’ve got a thick skin and an elastic heart
But your blade it might be too sharp
I’m like a rubber band until you pull too hard
But I may snap when I move close
But you won’t see me move no more
Cause I’ve got an elastic heart"

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

What's in a Name?

I saw that these lovely ladies were doing a one time link-up, so I decided to join in! 
How did your parents come up with it?
When I asked my mom this, she just said "it sounded like a pretty name for a beautiful little girl" Cue Awws.

Are there any funny stories behind your name?
Nope, Mom just liked how it sounded. 

What does it mean?
"Danielle is the French female variant of the male name Daniel, meaning "God is my judge" in the Hebrew language. The name appears in the Bible, where Daniel survives a night in a den of lions." [via]

"A.)Traditional; Feminine form of Daniel, meaning 'Judged only by GOD.' B.) Intense, fiery female Possessing ability to affect person, place, and immediate surrounding environment. Frequently manifesting such conflicting extremes that the outcome is typically one of lucidity or confusion. The conflict(s) can occur consecutively, concurrent or separate. Other characteristics of Danielle are; abundance of curly locks of hair (red?), kaleidoscope eyes(?), discernible voice capable of pitch, tone and volume that cracks Ice, shatters glass, and renders those in ear-shot stunned for moments, Buckcherry released a song about Danielle titled "CRAZY BITCH" in 2006, Danielle is synonymous with Tardy i;e, NEVER EVER, ever on time generally DST (Danielle Standard Time) run's within a 3 hour conversion =/- ( due at 2 pm will not arrive prior to 2:30 PM but usually by 5PM or somewhere in between) 
'DANIELLE' your most fearless, strong and loyal friend for life, or your most feared, relentless mortal enemy. 
Some guy was invading my personal space bubble on the dance floor and just wouldn't take a hint so he left me no choice but to pull a Danielle- the EMT's didn't know if he'd survive the ride to the hospital." [via]
[LOVE this definition- all in bold are true characteristics of me!!]

Do you like your name?
I do now, but I didn't always. 
Storytime: When I was a sophomore in high school, I decided I was tired of being called Danielle. So I tried to change it, and wanted everyone to call me by my middle name, Melanie. And I don't just mean friends- I mean everyone, teachers, coaches, etc. I wouldn't respond if they called me Danielle. This lasted for almost a year, until my Biology teacher called me out. He asked me a question regarding whatever we were studying, and I got it wrong. His response? "You were smarter as Danielle." I gave it up after that, and went back to my real name. 

Also, I can't STAND being called Daniella. It's not my name. I have a coworker who, even after I corrected her, continues to call me Daniella. Every time, for three years. Her exact words? "Daniella sounds prettier." 

What are your nicknames?
Dani, D, Munchkin-etta, Lil' Bit, and a long time ago Lil Desiqua, Double Deezy, and Raisinet 

Do you consider your name to be original?
No, but it's pretty cool to be able to find my name on a keychain almost anywhere. Except when it's sold out. 


And for your listening pleasure, Buckcherry's "Crazy Bitch." I will admit I've been called this more than once! [Note: It's a little dirty, just sayin]:

Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Taste of Tuesday: Buffalo Chicken Pasta Bake

Once upon a time (this summer?), I tried Jordan's Buffalo Chicken Pasta Bake. And it was absolutely delicious, and has since become a staple in my kitchen (thanks girl!)! You can find the original recipe here, but I made a few alterations.

Ingredients:
- box of pasta (16 oz., any type is fine)
- 3 boneless, skinless chicken breasts (I just used a box of Purdue Short Cuts, 9 oz)
- 1/2- 1C of hot sauce (my friend makes hot sauce, so I used his, but frank's also works)
- 1 C Ranch dressing
- 1/2- 1C shredded cheese (I chose a mixed Mexican cheddar, because that's what I had) (optional, but I think it was well worth it!)
- non-stick spray (hey, Pam)


To Do:
- cook and drain your pasta
- cube and cook your chicken (unless you took a short cut like me!)
- Preheat oven to 350 degrees
- mix your ranch and hot sauce to taste
- spray your baking dish, and add your chicken and pasta
- pour your sauces over the pasta and chicken, mixing it all around so everything is nicely coated
- add cheese on top (optional)
- bake for 20-25 minutes
- enjoy!!

buffalo sauce concoction
I forgot to mix well before snapping this pic
Ok, maybe I forgot to mix well before baking it too, but it was still delicious!

Quick and easy! And really really good!

What's a staple recipe in your kitchen?

Sunday, October 13, 2013

The Happiness Report #43

The "boop" makes it hysterical

free one year magazine subscriptions
leftovers
winning a box for a Superbowl Sunday pool!
waking up without an alarm clock {especially when you forgot to set the alarm the night before}
men's basketball shorts- seriously guys, so comfortable
being caught up at work
finding a new favorite song
biergartens
a weekend with NO plans!


Linky Love:
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Friday, October 11, 2013

Book Club and Back That Azz Up!


This week I'm sharing...


From Goodreads:
"It began for our narrator forty years ago when the family lodger stole their car and committed suicide in it, stirring up ancient powers best left undisturbed. Dark creatures from beyond the world are on the loose, and it will take everything our narrator has just to stay alive: there is primal horror here, and menace unleashed - within his family and from the forces that have gathered to destroy it. 

His only defense is three women, on a farm at the end of the lane. The youngest of them claims that her duckpond is ocean. The oldest can remember the Big Bang."

My Thoughts (some spoilers):
This was a Book Club selection. I guess I should have read the description before I started reading it, because to say I was surprised would be an understatement. I started reading this before bed one night, and actually had nightmares! I didn't know it was about spirits and monsters and fantasy and such. Ursula seriously freaked me out, and the idea of a spirit taking human form and entering my life. The whole fire ball and worm scene made me squeamish. The idea of something sticking inside of me and attaching to my heart was unsettling to say the least.

I will say that it was well written. The imagery was extremely realistic (considering it was a fantasy), and I actually felt for all of the characters- I was brought into their world and understood them. My favorite was Lettie. I loved her voice, the fact that we never real know how old she is but she seems wise and wrodly. And I love her affection for the nameless narrator, and the way she tries to watch over him. I was not thrilled with the ending, but I could understand it.  If you're into fantasy, I would recommend this book, just don't read it before bed!

“Monsters come in all shapes and sizes, Some of them are things people are scared of. Some of them are things that look like things people used to be scared of a long time ago. Sometimes monsters are things people should be scared of, but they aren't.”

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Tuesday, October 8, 2013

Weekend/Wedding Shenanigans

Friday:
Governor Christie came to speak at the college where I work. And he gave us a grant for $7.25M so that all the students and "additional scholars around the state can access powerful software licensed by NASA, Boeing and other technology-based organizations over the Internet." This software is three-dimensional imaging software for design and simulations. The funds are also supposed to be used to upgrade all the computers with fiber optic cables, and include a cloud system for "high-tech instruction, such as voice and video conferencing." He also gave a "Homecoming"-esque speech for the students which was pretty cool. 

Friday night I met the lovely bloggers Leslie and Athena! 
Athena came in from Phoenix, and Leslie lives in Brooklyn- it was so cool to finally meet them after following along with them for so long!

Athena and I!

Saturday:
Up early to head to my friend's wedding in Virginia! Though it took 8 hours (via 3 buses) to get there, it was definitely worth it! I met some new people, and reconnected with some old friends- oh and ya know, watched two of the coolest, loveliest people I know get married!

Proof of travel: Decoding the DC Metro 
[I actually had to ask the transit guy for help. I couldn't figure out how to get a fare card. I was that tourist idiot I'm always making fun of in my head *hangs head in shame*]
I was actually only a little bit late. The issue was that some of the buses were late/ running slow. And then I can't dress myself in a sari, so I wandered around my hotel a little bit looking for an Auntie (Aunt) to help me. I thought it would be embarrassing to have a stranger completely random older Indian woman help me, but it wasn't, and in fact she knew my BB since kindergarten, and was more than happy to help me! So I only missed the groom walking in, and I got there right before the...

Wedding ceremonies!
There were two- a traditional Hindu one (below) and a non-traditional Muslim one, in which I thought the officiant talked more about himself than God or the couple, but whatevs- still a beautiful ceremony.

Wedding dances!

The beautiful bride and me!

The always pretty BB and me!

Sunday: 
Sunday was a day of recovery. I took the bus back, got home around 7 or 8, and just vegged out.
Though the weekend was fun, I'm also kind of happy this is the last wedding for the year for me... I think! Weddings have become a bit emotional for me recently, and by the time they're over I'm completely drained. Hopefully time will make this easier, but for now, I'm happy for a little break!


How was your weekend?

Sunday, October 6, 2013

The Happiness Report #42


- doing a good job
- 80 degree weather in October
- new music
- meeting blog friends
- making new friends
- being self sufficient
- book club meetings
- Spanish food
-The Giant World-Peace-Inducing Rubber Duck
I first heard about him here, and then learned more about him here. Just the fact that a giant rubber duck exists makes me happy, and I hope he comes up to the NJ/NYC area soon!
- weddings


Linky Love:
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